My husband and I have been trying to find another woman to join us from time to time, and it is NOT EASY!! I use to be a provider myself so I really wasn't trying to go that route. I'm VERY bisexual and I like to keep our sex life interesting. I don't have any friends. My husband and I are mainly to ourselves we keep our circle very small. You can't bring just anyone into your bedroom and involve them in your relationship these days!! People are retarded and capable of anything. I have no tolerance for B-S or games and it seems that that's all that's out there!!! Jeez!! Somebody help!!!

EOM

And I can't find a girl either. Lol. Where are you located?

I am in Cartersville, Ga

I haven't been on TER in a while. I'm not in the hobby anymore. I use to live in the Carolinas but I'm presently living in Cartersville, Ga

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I thought that maybe there would be someone who had any type of advice as oppose to going pro. I'm not against it, it's just so trial and error... I mean as a provider I was real, honest & reliable. However, not all providers share those qualities. Another thing is the clockwatchers and the rates. Yes you can pick and chose on a website but in all actuality you never know what is gonna show up at your door.

I understand that you are probably speaking for yourself and from the way you conduct yourself as a provider but it can be very hit and miss at times when trying to hire someone. I have SPECIFIC things that I would expect or be asking for and honestly, by the time it's all said and done the rate would be too outrageous anyway. There's just certain things that I'm not going to spend for. In a perfect world I would look on a website, pick someone, she would look like the picture that influenced me to pick her when she shows up, the she'll actually show up, be genuinely interested in being there, the rate wouldn't be increased for every extra second, and she'd be equally involved with both of us and not try to rush off.......... So u see, money is a huge contributing factor. I got it but I just have my boundaries on what I use it for.

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Sweetheart, did u not read what I wrote?? I said in a perfect world! This isn't a perfect world now is it? I understand that what I'm seeking is damn near impossible. I didn't post on the board to get into a debate on why to go pro or why not......... I appreciate your feedback though. How is Vegas these days? I was over there July 4th last yr.

one of my atf's....leanalane.com

I was a unicorn for 3 different couples and it always fell apart. Though in those instances, it was always the wife/gf getting jealous and the couple becoming possessive of me that ruined things. I'm  very polyamorous and things fell apart when I felt that clingyness.  

You obviously have me confused. I was never a "hooker" let alone associated with the likes thereof.... Even if I was, a "hooker",  don't you think if I knew anyone that I would've persued that option before posting on a discussion board? From the looks of your profile you and I are on 2 totally different levels sweetie. Travel to Indiana?? For what?? Lol

go to some of the events that sound interesting to you... it can be pretty clique-y as well is a lil icky...  the 2 of you having fun together with other naughty fun people is the goal, right?

AWWWWW! Thanks for that translation but Indiana?? Nah!! It's not that serious babe!! Besides she doesn't fit my criteria!!!