I have had a fantasy of meeting a beautiful woman out in the world somewhere, going back to her place and having her give me a long deep BBBJ. After, while enjoying the glow, she says its her turn an pulls out her own cock for me to work on.  This could be a woman with a strap-on, or a very passable trans.
Light domination is possible. Nothing degrading, but a strong person who can give direction and take control.
Anyone with ideas where to find this in LA, or volunteers for the job, send me a note.