After Several messages exchanged back and forth a meeting was set up for 4/18 in the evening. I was to wait on a phone call when he was finished with meetings. So therefore I set aside my whole day to be available. My donations was very clear. The phone call finally came but was not willing to pay full rates as discussed. So now I have wasted my whole day and night waiting for Nothing... Why do men think this is OK?????

That was rude and inconsiderate.  Sorry for your experience.

 
Sorry to hear about that. But some people are just assholes. It's just a game to them and they will play you as long as they think they can.

I get gents like that 3 times or more a wk. agree to everything n drag u all day. then last minute act stupid n don't come. hopefully u posted him im VH

As a hobbyist, I've found just the reverse to be true. I've been stood up after lengthy back-&-forth texts and phone calls. I've had providers whose pics are way out of date; providers who offer GFE but don't deliver; and agencies that advertise using pics of women found on the internet which they swear are "100% real" (of course they're real, but not really the girl they're representing) and send someone who may vaguely resemble the girl in the pics. If had so many of these experiences that I only rely on TER and certain agencies that have proven to be reliable. So, it's not just asshats wasting providers' time, but also providers wasting their clients' time.

I'm sorry that you got burned by this jerk, but rest assured there are guys (like me) who treat providers with respect and kindness and generosity.

I'm sure there is a not a lady that has been burned or played before.. It comes with the territory... It's unfortunate but there are those that are as MiamiBoy stated... ASSHATS and pride themselves in their sole skill of being one no matter what it is in life..  

and as MiamiBoy stated it goes both ways.. It's unfortunate for us as well... I have been fortunate thus far as I travel out of my area for dates... So it would be a real kick in the pants but I'd make the time not a total loss...

Hang in there... I am sure you have met more gems then jerks..

Dude, you are spot on.  

I had an experience with a provider recently. It was a big disappointment. I did a lot of research. Her TER reviews were great. Her pictures were smokin hot. Her website described clear expectations about hygiene and how she shows up dressed to kill. She was a bit expensive, but it sounded awesome. Unfortunately, that's not what happened. She was 45 minutes late, and talked about nothing for another 30 minutes. She didn't look anything like her hot photos, and certainly didn't dress up for the occasion, at all. We didn't get started until an hour and 15 minutes after the appointed time, and it really didn't do much for me. I went there ready to play by all her rules, without any whining about money. Left extremely disappointed.

Providers and clients both have expectations. And when those expectations aren't met, one of them won't be happy.

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Want to make this clear.... No one is whining just ask a simple question.... thats all

on my site and in my ads i say "PLEASE RESPECT MY TIME.. when scheduling your appt"..
shit happens ..remember most gents are good about keeping appts..but yep it pisses ya off it hey are so late!!
 it backs up the rest of your day!
hang in there sweetie!
hugs..
KD
Keri Diamonds
TER id 72774

Did you screen him?

I said in my initial message he has several reviews on TER for providers so YES i screened him................

AW time wasters out there.  I would hope you let your fellow providers know who this guy is to he can't do this to others.

Hope your next experience is first class.

"Several reviews" passes as screening? No need to get cranky just a simple question princess.

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I have heard some of the most crazy excuses from car wreck to sick cat and I just cant put all my eggs into one basket. The biggest insult is when someone text, calls, and or emails you for a week prior and when day comes NOT a word. Thanks to all the Lovers who show up fresh smelling and on time. I love a Man with a Plan.

You have an obligation to review her and mention your disappointment. Otherwise, we're all wasting our time if we rely on only the positive reviews.

That guy is a jack ass.

Hotty,  
Your willingness and ability to be flexible is awesome and when someone uses that against you it is not okay!
I agree with the many members that have said it goes both ways.  I also agree "stuff" happens and appointments made are cancelled.  It is very disappointing and often discouraging but we try to learn something each time this happens. If someone cannot give me a specific time then they run the risk of me not being available. I am easy going up to a point. Sometimes you just have to take control and let someone know it is not okay that you are late, that you need to reschedule, etc., and I cannot accommodate you at the new time.  Stuff has happened for me where I have been late or had to cancel with short notice. It really pains me to have someone disappointed with me and I am just as disappointed.  If they know me then they understand this is a super rare occurrence and if they don't they will learn that I try very hard to make it up to them!  
Your frustration is shared, my dear! There will always be someone who wants to make their own rules.  Please share the information on the local Tampa board (providers only). So sorry this happened and best wishes for future visits with some of the lovely gentlemen who have replied here and the others to be found!

Kind regards and sweet Southern Kisses,  
K

What is VH?

hoping to whittle your rate down since it was late in your day. Personally, I cannot imagine that pissing off a lady on price, will somehow still result in her giving him 110%!!

Sorry that you had to suffer with an idiot Hotty......