to have, because going forward you can customize your strategy. It's important to know that research is really only what you make of it. You did read that the lady is a flake, but worth it if you can manage to "catch" her. So your first mistake was putting all your companionship eggs in this lady's basket. It was never a good plan, but as is often the case with people who have both a big and a little head, they let the little head (and the built-up fantasies) rule the decision making process.
With a situation like that, where you've been made fully aware of the lady's tendencies, you would have been better off with a back-up plan of some sort. Only book with someone like that when you know you have the time and leisure to make other plans if she's true to form.
But don't do the opposite (and something that will get you on every lady's time waster list) and make plans- even tentatively- with several ladies. Pick out a lady who is good with short notice and will see you the same day as your back- up plan. Maybe have a couple of those or a reputable agency's number handy and bookmarked in case your lady flakes.
It was your own making, but the experience will improve your strategy for success the next time.
Posted By: late20
So this is the second time I've tried to book with this date in the last 6 weeks. The last time I was here, we were all set, then she emailed at the last minute and said she had a headache. Her TER reviews were awesome, but I searched her in some other boards, and NCNS seems to be a trend with her. Everyone seems to say the same thing...IF you can get a hold of her and IF she shows up, it's well worth it. She promised the next time I was here she would make it up etc.
Against my better judgment, I decided to try her again this trip (like I said, the TER reviews were off the charts). So we've been emailing back and forth and confirmed for tonight. She texted to say she was running a few mins late then texted and said she was at the wrong hotel. A few more texts (not sure how she couldn't find the place), then she went radio silent. Wasted 2 hours of my time and not even a confirmation that she wasn't coming so I can stop waiting and go to bed. Is this a regular occurrence with providers down here?
About to give up on Miami... Any no drama providers who speak multiple foreign languages and might be up and available tonight, or tomorrow night? Oh yeah...you need to have a functioning GPS and a watch that ticks too!
Really don't want to head back to the freezing Midwest on Thursday feeling let down by all the hotties in South FL.