I'm going to be in Miami next week, and it's been so incredibly difficult to make plans to meet anyone.

Seems so many ladies currently won't even entertain the thought of meeting if you cannot provide references (and someone suggested I should be fine sending my W2s to verify my identity even).  If you can't comply, well they're gone.  So many don't even respond to emails or texts and no reason is given.

I fully understand that I just have to live with this, and I'll make do, but I can't believe it's gotten to the point where the pool of clients can be winnowed so much and no exceptions made.