I'm curious as to what providers and gentlemen think about pre-payment and/or deposits.  Sadly, my employer pays once a month.  I wish there was a way to pay or deposit a couple of payments with a provider for a month or two, and then have the session.  However, some of the providers I've discussed this with don't seem all that keen on it.  Of course I could set aside a little account, but if I'm saving up for something special, I'm worried I might get hungry and take the edge off with an immediate encounter.

Are providers disinclined to book sessions in the future after a couple of payments have been submitted? Is there a loss of interest or inclination if the lady has been fully compensated BEFORE meeting me?

For hobbyists, anybody want to comment or weigh in?

Do providers not wish to track or check if payments have been made, and would prefer to be compensated/gifted at once, in person?

I would be interested in having an insightful thread developed on this topic.

I require deposits for extended rendezvous but prepayments may not be an issue. If I was a gentleman looking to do this, I would only prepay someone with a perfect tracked record and impeccable reputation, we've all heard horror stories of ladies keeping deposits and never delivering so always do research on your potential date before doing this. In 4 years I've never had any issue and I plan to keep it that way. Deposits should not take the edge off the appointment in fact, they are a great way to proof that you are serious and committed about it which is a turn on in my opinion.

welcome by many of us. As Paloma said, you have to ensure the lady is reputable. You'll also need a secure way to do it, and the lady will provide you with her choices for that.

Good luck and have fun!!

why not just save up the money?

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I started off in this hobby rather slowly, so I never needed to deposit.  Before I started focusing more on the higher end, more reputable providers, I would have been quite hesitant to send money to someone I've never even met. But now that I focus more toward reputable ladies, I have to agree with the statements above.  Reputation speaks volumes.

I have helped a few of my Great Friends by doing some prepayments, but only after multiple encounters.   Its a crazy world, and we all have lived pay check to paycheck in our lives, and shit just happens that pushes you over the limit.   I have been very selective in doing it and have never been ripped off, probably given back extra favors in return for the help.

Prepayment is a plus...not a minus.  Just be certain the lady is trustworthy and reliable. You are the one taking on all the risk!

Be careful as Summer Sinn scammed dozens of guys that pre paid with green dot cards and she never returned the money and cancelled her visit to their city.  If the provider has a top notch rep and if there is a way to get a refund if services are cancelled, then I guess prepayment is ok.

Fishter,

Pre-Payment and Deposits are always welcome with me. Greendot is what I like to use.
Do make sure you check out a lady that has a great reputation.  
I'd hate to see anyone scammed.

Have a great day,
Jad

I have done a few prepayments, but I can honestly say that I am concerned that if could definitely go wrong and you might lose your deposit. I haven't ever lost mine yet, but it's always in the back of my mind.
I wish there was a way for the girls to view your payment history on TER so they would have confidence that you wouldn't try to stiff them ( no pun intended ) !

This is a more common and widely accepted practice than most realize I think. It is most common with touring ladies but has become a common practice in local provider/hobbyist relationships as well.  

From personal knowledge, ladies first started requiring deposits before their tours. This is not unreasonable. Gentlemen, hundreds/thousands of dollars are spent up front prior to touring. Hotels, airfare, arrangements at home for boarding of pets, etc. total in upwards of $3,000-4,000 sometimes depending upon the length of the tour. Many times, a ladies schedule will be 80% booked with what appears to be many great dates. 2-3 hour verified gentleman, a few a day and it appears to a great calendar. She leaves for her tour and then BAM! the emails come, the phone rings, and then one by one the cancellations come in..."there was an emergency at work", "my kid fell of the swing", life happens and we are understanding, but the tour would have been canceled and the thousands of dollars would not have been incurred. In situations like this, deposits are most definitely required and acceptable and very common. It is unfortunate that one or two dishonest providers have abused this practice.

In your example, there is nothing wrong with that prepayment system. Most providers would welcome it. I speak from personal experience, I think that if anything, the interest leading up to the date is greater because you feel that you have a special trust/bond/relationship. You extended your trust to me, therefore we have a great relationship and our time together will be amazing (not that is would not otherwise be as well

All smart providers have set up businesses to track the income legally and pay taxes. They welcome the income via a check or credit card payment through their company. They should show income regardless and would welcome a check made payable to a company name. Small increments or being placed on a payroll even are the smart ways to collect income. Ladies should always seek the advice of an accountant.  

Good luck with your ventures and as always have fun!

Sexy Toni
Your GFE Assistant

 

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I find that professors who've taught a long time fill their syllabus with a long list of rules to cover every contingency they've ever encountered from students: attendance, late assignments, cell phone usage, etc., etc. Similarly, escorts try to eliminate every possibility of no shows, etc. Understandable, but not a good business practice from the consumers' point of view. I ran from professors like that, and would run from escorts like that. C'est la guerre!

Like it or not, sometimes, you need to take that class, and the professor may not be your liking. The fact is, some ladies require a commitment, just as you require one from what ever school you may be enrolled in. If a professor acted in the manner you desire, than any fool would pass.  And all no professors would have any credit what so ever !  
"This is war." wtf is the point of a french comment that makes no sense? Are you studying new audio tapes ?  
Ps .
If your sucking glass watch out for the teeth.

Kisses

Elle Vegas

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Similarly, the term  C'est la guerre has evolved. See the examples in the link below.

Je t'aime, ma cherie amour

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Good news is providers never cancel, overbook and deposits never disappear. Yup. Always the customers fault. Priceless.

You don't jump at the chance of using your credit card to the benefit of tax law abiding ladies engaged in an illegal enterprise? Fancy that.

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Green Dot or something similar and pay in cash.

Funny lady