This is a serious question. So far in Dallas, almost no one has been ok participating in my very very chill screening. Have any other ladies experienced this? Is there some particular way that is standard for the area that I’m messing up? Please advise. My standard is to request an other a good faith deposit or a phone call. This doesn’t seem excessive does it? Thank you for reading and I look forward to the responses! Have an awesome day filled with love and light, everyone!
Screening in Dallas is like pulling teeth, it's way out of hand. Just stick to your guns and you'll be safe, albeit low volume. The right kind of client will understand and respect your safety measures, and the rest don't deserve you!
With all the scamming going on, I won’t give a deposit to someone I haven’t met before. Phone call seems reasonable tho.
If you can't tell a lady isn't a scammer by the research you've done on her then why are you even setting up an appointment?
Just say you don't do deposits and don't bother trying to justify the why. We get it, some guys don't screen or do deposits.
I don't do deposits(in MSP) unless he's under 30 or exhibits odd behavior over email.
Def stick to your guns with screening. Gentlemen won't have any issue. I ask for photo ID, 2 provider references, or a p411 profile for verification and have zero issues.
In the cases where a fellow has issues with screening, or even blocks out part of their ID, there have been issues(flakiness/too many emails) 99% of the time. I'm at the point where I won't accept a partially blurred ID because the pattern of these types has been time wasting.
While I understand that some cities have a 'bad reputation' for screening, I believe this can be fixed by ALL providers requiring no less than adequate screening. Gentlemen will either do what it takes to make ladies feel safe or be gone. Either way, no loss.
I have a question also but I’ll answer you first
I’m unsure whether or not you have something up where you can front then your reviews or not but I would politely ask them to view them and if they feel they you are a match with them then please screen and be aware of a deposit
I was able to screen everyone with them knowing I didn’t have any more appts but they’re going to stay in my roster til I return
My question is : where the heck are you ladies placing ads ?
I didn’t get any hits til I changed something on all three of the sites I use and they weren’t reaching out til the day before I left ? Please pm if you need , I’m willing to trade info for MN , New Orleans , Columbus, and what I think could be Dallas