Un clocked Dinner date+ 2 hr session vs At home 2hr session??
What do you really prefer?
I often toss it in just because I dont clock dinner, its is a pleasurable experience and allows a longer more care free time.., after all it still is your dime right?
So why dont more ladies throw this in when meeting with regular gents or even first time lovers? Ive notice a lot of ladies require the funding for dinner time as well??
Especially when traveling, I would love to have the company, but paying for an extra two hours is not always possible. I've done it, though. They have been great times every time.
I'll look you up if I'm ever out your way.
I'll look you up if I'm ever out your way.
You get my vote Chrissy!
But all ladies are different, and men making the assumption that they are the same will have to deal with some definite negativity because of it. Some have been doing this so long they expect payment at all times. And for some its an ego thing competing against other providers, needing to max the $$/hr amount to feel self esteem in comparison to another. And for some $$ isn't the main focus and so they don't feel disrespected if not paid for each and every hour spent.
It's can be confusing for men since we don't want to have to talk about the $$, and yet not doing so and assuming one woman is like another they had seen will probably cause some sort of negative passive aggressive actions to be thrown at him.
Lol I am more than happy 2 let you make me yours love.
. Im low volume so the competitive nature that comes with an " always available" provider is nill to me..I agree the $ is a factor IF we are infact meeting BCD..if the intentions we're just for dinner except it with appreciated grace and a full tummy! I just read some sites of a few ladies and noticed the whole" dont ask me to date you" line and just started cracking up..naturally it made me curious to what the actual sane Real indy's think of this obviously forced policy
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I do not clock dinner time with repeat visitors for dinner dates. Loyalty to me is what drives most of my offers for a rate reduction or special dates. So, I reserve that sort of perk for gentlemen who want to come back and who are loyal.
With that said, I just went to Vegas for 5 days with a very good friend who I see weekly. I clocked only the time we spent in private (4 hours total). Sometimes for me it is about the company I keep, the experiences I have and not always the rate I make. Experiences can be priceless if you give yourself a chance to experience them. For those that I have not had the pleasure of meeting, I think that I offer dinner time at 1/5th of my hourly rate until we have met. haha, I have never had a new guy take me out so I am not sure what it is rated at.