I posted on the General Board regarding a distinction i find important...a woman's "beauty" vs. her "sexiness."  Rather than re-hash my thoughts, i will just ask:  Ladies...would you rather, if you could only choose one, be considered "beautiful"  or "sexy?"  Gentlemen... Is there a Chicago provider who you think embodies the phrase "sexy?"  Of course, you might also find her beautiful, but i'm wondering if there is a lady who, in your opinion, is totally sexy regardless of the "appearance" number you would give her?  The subjectivity of that number has been debated quite a bit...but sexy, well, there is no number for that...or is it in your appearance number?

I am really not sure which I would choose! Because your beauty is what draws people's aesthetic interest, but your over all sexiness is a trait that I feel will keep someone interested. Both are as equally important... But you know what - I have seen some "average looking" girls that do really well because they are totally seductive and sexy. So, I think that, at least in this realm, being sexy is more important than having a classic kind of beauty. I feel like your sexiness encompasses your personality and performance, and isn't just a look. Of course, ideally I would prefer to have both. On the other hand, sexiness is something that one can, somewhat, learn. Well, some people can- I don't think everyone is necessarily teachable.  

Why is it that only the gentlemen get asked what provider embodies sexy? I personally know quite a few ladies who embody sexiness.  

Someone can have the looks of a TEN, but be totally clumsy and awkward when it comes to being sexy! I feel like ones sexiness is like the combination of "looks and performance" because it is a little bit of your curves/body and  your facial features, and a whole lot of your attitude, the way you speak, and carry yourself, your performance and the level of comfort and ease of which you perform. Sexiness, for me, has a lot to do with confidence. When I am feeling beautiful and sexy, I am going to act that way.  

OK .... So that is a little bit of my analysis and philosophy for the day.

all kidding aside, whatever pays more. LOL! Seems to me this business will never be found out, so the best thing is just to be yourself, whether you are beautiful or sexy, there are many people looking for you no matter who you are, or what you have.

So for me, I like being me - sexy, but as beautiful as possible, evolving more beautiful physically over time. I think there is a possibility to be both, so long as we don't lose one for the other trying to gain too much of what others tell us we should be.

I think you can have both. So if I were to choose one or the other, I would choose both. And I think it's very possible to be both - and.

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is a combination of looks, appearance, smell, hair, nails, skin, attitude, savua fair etc.  

Anetta was sexy
Christine L'Amour IS sexy (when at home here)
Carina is sexy
Victoria Solena was sexy
Dani Amour is sexy
Olivia Light is sexy
Audrey Davis is sexy

IMHO

I just saw Audrey and you could not be more right! She is the definition of sexy

I understand looking at someone and seeing "beautiful" without finding her sexy.  That part, I get.  

However, when even the most perfectly pretty "no depravity there"  type is looking up at you with your cock in her mouth, isn't she then in the "sexy" category too?  

What I'm saying is, how do you walk away from a sexual encounter that lived up to your expectations, and NOT think that woman is sexy?  

Maybe I'm missing something.  It wouldn't be the first time.  LOL.  

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Reminds me of a favorite sign in a restaurant near Key West.

Beauty is in the eye of the beerholder.

... while i'm very confident i'm at minimum an 'attractive' woman i'll take "sexy".

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Just Beautiful and so Sexy!

Neither......I AM me...

If she sucks in bed...is she still sexy or beautiful, even if she is in fact beautiful in the face.  

I love Debbienooner post....ahehehe....made me giggle. You have a point.

me that I'm not a sultry and intensely sexy being. Though what I find is that because I honor and showcase my attributes as-is, meaning I minimally style my very coily and free flowing hair and keep all my body hair unshaven, I am not perceived to be beautiful in a "mainstream" or "normative" sense. And that's fine by me. As this seems to be a trick question, I'll take both being a distinct all-natural beauty *and* an uber-sexy babe.

sexy is preferred to beautiful. If you can get both its a plus.

I like your response but that's the truth. Some women you cant even be around with getting excited and other after a little touching.