If you are serious about wanting a weekend "date" with a reputable and respected provider think ahead a little please.  At least get pre-screened for a later appt time or be RS because trying to reach another provider on the weekend for a same day appt, just is not going to happen.  Why?  Because most ladies are not available on the weekend or might have plans that keep them from the phone all day.  The chances of getting a response from a reference on a weekend is super super slim to the point I don't even waste my time anymore.    

I don't work on weekend unless it's my ATF or a repeat calling... I have a very active social life & I love to Confess on the DANCEFLOOR so I will opt to go out instead of entertaining indoors,.. So last minute calls for appt is slim to none.... Also screening takes time, so give that provider enough notice so they can screen you.....

the gals that will complain here about the time wasters sending in screening info and never following through.  No shortage of those posts here.

It's one of the best films of the twentieth century

personally I see it on many ladies sites that they just are not available on weekends or need 24hrs notice for them.  Friends and family are off work as well kids are not in school(talking school year) so they want to spend time with them.  It is also a harder time frame to get a sitter without plenty of notice if you have kids and need one(I don't).  Since just about everyone else is off work this is generally the time frame when you go out boating with your friends, summer BBQ's with family, and all those other things that can't be done on weekdays when everyone else is in their 9-5.

The day the Earth stood still

That happened to me.  I tried to get pre-screned but the provider wouldn't bother until I committed to a time.  I was sincerely going to visit her but I cant control the timing.  I can often get away at lunch in the Loop but cant be sure till the day starts.  Frankly,  I get the impression that business is soooo good right now that providers have more clients than they can accommodate.  Well, life goes on.  Sage, your new pics are great!

I think you're completely reasonable and you absolutely should say no to a request like that. I always contact a new lady several days ahead in case she wants a reference, and I understand that no one is always available 24/7 for that purpose or pretty much any other. Granted he was horny but he could take care of that for himself for a day or two

Why do u always make everything into a dramatic thread... All it said was weekends most providers aren't available & short notices are annoying!!! I think it's just an honest thread Sage post & a well stated one....

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Simply stated many gals bemoan the dudes who ask for a pre-screening.  Do a search here and you'll see that topic brought up with regularity.

But it seems you have a snotty side to you about everything & to everyone.. Her thread was great, well stated & I think helps those who don't know any better...   Just saying!!!

Sounds like you're suggesting that a dude should only adhere to what ONE gal is asking him to do.

Dude it's out there for those whom do not know why a providers aren't returning calls/texts/emails etc... Somehow you got oh, there's plenty others out there so "this post" a shitty post tude!!   Maybe you just read too much into the post, it wasn't a negative post but your response to it is NEGATIVE!!!  Are you this negative in real life???  Not every post is to slam anyone or be malicious... We providers aren't evil money loving greedy HOOKERS like you seem to describe us as!!! Actually probably the most sincere, caring, fun ladies any man could ever meet!!   Take a HAPPY PILL once in awhile!!! P

Take a few and go dancing.  Yeah, you do like that.

Get a life & please if you're going to make examples for these other posters.. Learn some manners & learn to read with an open mind.... Stuffy & Negative isn't "The Way" .... Maybe you should have a few & dance thine you wouldn't be sooo damn Negative ..... Oh ,go get ur 4 horsewhiners & let's gain upon someone so everyone can think you're SOMEBODY!!! Lmfao lmfao lmfao!!! I've taken my happy pill darling so please don't ruin it!!! 😘😘😘😘😘

Since I don't drink I tend to see things as they are written.  Maybe lay off the juice before you post.

Wow.  Ms TER June 2014 replied to my post.  What could be better?  Oh yea!

Mr. snarky!!!!!    Guess your statement about " I don't post on reg. Board is BS!!! Have wonderful day oh ye who's wise & perverted!!!

If you generally don't accept appointments on the weekend, specifically Sunday, Do you still screen people on the weekend?  I mean, if I contact any of you lovely ladies on Friday, hoping for a Monday morning appointment, would you screen me over the weekend or you off duty the entire time.
Just curious...........

There are many ways to verify a gentlemen other than contacting another provider. You can use verify him, spokeo, google his name, phone number, address. If you have all that info and he is respectful to you on the phone and all his information checks out, then why do you still need a girls ok?

but to give in on the "strict" screening that makes me feel safe which includes multiple ways of screening combined then I feel I am then compromising myself, and potentially all of my past guests as well.  Screening is a personal thing and each lady has their own comfort zone, mine just happen to be really high.  I do not feel going more lenient will do anything but make me more paranoid and thus compromise my ability to perform well compromising my service.  Yes, I do rely on references if a gent is not RS, but I use that ALONG with other methods that together complete my screening process.  My thoughts are if you want to have the most intimate of times with me, then I need certain things to be able to feel comfortable enough to offer them.  So no, I am not rethinking anything.  You do what makes you feel comfy and I will do what makes me feel comfy.

available on weekends, give references on the weekend and I do try to screen on weekends but a majority of the time it takes much longer to hear back from references.  Some will verify on weekends even if they are not available, some will wait till Monday and others are super fast responding.  I personally use weekends to hang with my family so I don't really have time to screen in depth with references and all the other info.  Sure I am still on the computer but only come on like once every hour or so for a few minutes if I am home but am not just sitting in front of my computer all weekend.  No I do not have text or internet on my phone, I refuse to feel that tethered to this.   I choose to have a life outside of this too so weekends are harder, that is all I was pointing out

For every woman who considers a weekend request as a "bother" that should be made well in advance to suit HER schedule, there are several just like you who are happy for the business.

Thank you for reminding everybody that this is first and foremost a "service" business and if one person doesn't want to provide said service, especially at several hundred dollars an hour, there are many ladies waiting in the wings to scoop up that business.

Thank  you for the wonderful response, and btw I live in Dallas too. You've definitely caught my eye before, but this post puts you way up on my "to do" list))

Why don't you save your criticism about telling other women how to screen for Sage? She is the one who started a thread about how potential customers should avoid getting on her bad side.

She, just like you, are free to run your business the way you see fit, but when you start lecturing your potential clients and other ladies who have every bit as much right to state how THEY do things, that's when you get people telling YOU how to do things. Or is suppose it's fine when you and Sage tell other hookers how to run their business, but it's not OK for them to return the favor?

since when did I tell anyone how to run their business?  I was commenting to the guests how best to try to actually get a date with the provider you pick on the weekend.  It seems somehow my message was lost somehow

Chicago is unfortunately a short notice city. I pass on many short notice requests but sometimes they work for me. I saw a really nice short notice guy yesterday (Sunday) - he was on his way out of the city for dinner and asked if he could stop by for a 90 minute session beforehand.  I am glad I accepted, we had a great time and I am happy I was able to take his request.  

I would have no issue, but you made it sound as if you were speaking for ALL quality providers and then suggested people who disagreed might be better suited to BP as they were the only providers who would be open to such a request, and you did so in a rather offhanded manner, basically using BP as a pejorative.

That's where your message went wrong, if your message  was "lost" it was due to your own rather superior attitude in the wording of said message.

I book on short notice both during the week, and on weekends as my schedule is varied and I am not one to plan my sex life days in advance. Actually it was only yesterday that I booked with what turned out to be a very lovely woman on short notice who may very well turn out to be a favorite. If I had taken your advice, I guess I would have been sitting around all day with my dick in my hand instead of enjoying the company of a beautiful young lady that I had never contacted before that very day.

Run your business your way, but please don't try to lord your way of doing business over the rest of us. Personally I don't react well to the backhanded insults that those of us who don't do it your way should be relegated to BP, and from the looks of some of the other responses, it appears I am not the only one.

I can say one positive thing has come out of this thread, Mya's refreshing attitude has put her on my "Must not miss" list. Speaking strictly for myself, I like it when a woman is eager and appreciative for my business and doesn't ask me to jump through hoops for HER convenience. I can say I really like her attitude. Yours? not so much. Or perhaps you were just guilty of bad wording? I guess we can simply chalk it up to that, deal?

I should have said me, sometimes I speak in generalities and maybe that gets taken wrong

Damn girl you could lighten up just a tad?

Damn that was the perfect answer. Nice!

Posted By: GaGambler

For every woman who considers a weekend request as a "bother" that should be made well in advance to suit HER schedule, there are several just like you who are happy for the business.

Thank you for reminding everybody that this is first and foremost a "service" business and if one person doesn't want to provide said service, especially at several hundred dollars an hour, there are many ladies waiting in the wings to scoop up that business.

Thank  you for the wonderful response, and btw I live in Dallas too. You've definitely caught my eye before, but this post puts you way up on my "to do" list))

We've got each other's backs when the other ladies want a day off.

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Weekends might be harder for you to schedule without notice, but you don't speak for all hookers any more than I speak for all johns.

My experience is that for a short notice appointment, which accounts for virtually all of my appointments, weekends don't seem to be a bit more difficult for me than any other day of the week. That's MY experience, and I am not saying that MY experience is going to be mirrored by anybody else.

I do appreciate your softening in tone regarding this issue, but you calling us ever meeting professionally "unlikely" is a gross understatement for more reasons than I can count, but I am sure that fact is not going to cost you a moments worth of sleep tonight. lmao

She's providing the entertainment portion of our voyage.

but I kind of like her front as well

and I definitely like her attitude.

Is simply to be taken with a grain of salt.

Posted By: IsorokuYamamoto

Damn that was the perfect answer. Nice!  
   

Posted By: GaGambler

For every woman who considers a weekend request as a "bother" that should be made well in advance to suit HER schedule, there are several just like you who are happy for the business.  
   
 Thank you for reminding everybody that this is first and foremost a "service" business and if one person doesn't want to provide said service, especially at several hundred dollars an hour, there are many ladies waiting in the wings to scoop up that business.  
   
 Thank  you for the wonderful response, and btw I live in Dallas too. You've definitely caught my eye before, but this post puts you way up on my "to do" list))

Looks like you got a few WK's to even go to save your honor.

Mr Snarky... He's the one who thinks he has to put his useless 2 cents into every post ....   Lmfao lmfao lmfao!!! Board trolls!!! You gotta like them for the entertainment!!! Woo whoo!!!

Once you come around from your latest binge do a search to see the last time CPA posted on the Chicago board.

Damn, just when I was getting ready to send you a message you had to condition it on being a GOOD fuck.

Look woman hater, don't talk about or insinuate things you don't know.. Just cuz you've seen couple posts about girls out partying doesn't mean that's all we do!!  I don't like you!! You are a NEGATIVE Piece a crap who hates women & is disrespectful!! So take ur little snarky comments & shove it where the sun don't shine!! I've gotten a lot of PMs from peeps to let this go but I seem not able to cuz the of the distasteful fowl you bring to every thread!!!    Maybe you should have couple of jacks (I don't drink that shit) then you may be a Nicer Board Troll!!!!!

And when a poster resorts to the "I've gotten a lot of PM's from peeps" is the ultimate sign of losing a debate.  

I used to like Gemma

Posted By: ChgoCPA

Is simply to be taken with a grain of salt.  
   
 And even still Sage had to get a final "my way is the right way" to GaG below!  
   
 Oh well, aasholes like me will still point out to those who want to understand that there are no absolutes.  And judging from those who contacted me, they appreciate the input.  
   
 Should somebody go and do a well being check on Gemma?    
   

Posted By: IsorokuYamamoto

Damn that was the perfect answer. Nice!  
     

Posted By: GaGambler

For every woman who considers a weekend request as a "bother" that should be made well in advance to suit HER schedule, there are several just like you who are happy for the business.  
     
  Thank you for reminding everybody that this is first and foremost a "service" business and if one person doesn't want to provide said service, especially at several hundred dollars an hour, there are many ladies waiting in the wings to scoop up that business.  
     
  Thank  you for the wonderful response, and btw I live in Dallas too. You've definitely caught my eye before, but this post puts you way up on my "to do" list))

Discussion board. The ultimate john screening tool.  

Not that I want to butt in on a private fight, but it's usually "negative, angry, and bitter" in no particular order.

Ok, back to your private little squabble, I promise not to intervene, but I will set a betting line on who is going to win this little spat if requested. The Betting window is now open. lol

Lmfao!!! Their just telling me ur not worth the words!! They are absolutely right... Have wonderful day!! Lmfao lmfao lmfao!!!  

I hope you eventually look in the mirror and decide to change your behavior.

Me too. Good luck Gemma!

Lol.

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Lmfao!!!! You're very funny with your assumption!!! Good luck to you too.... Lmfao!!!

Thanks for putting it out there!

and pushing them right into BSC land. He seems to have done just that here.

I wonder how her hangover is this morning. PUI does have it's risks, waking up to all the stupid shit that you said while drunk is high on that list. lmao

I think you're on to something. Wonder if any women who crank out these rabid, drunken rants ever wonder what kind of impression it leaves. Duh.  

The ones that are actually BSC, usually don't have a clue and trundle on, just like BSC Taylor, thinking that they are the smart ones, and everyone else has it wrong.

Of course they then blame everyone else for the fact that their phone stops ringing. Usually they blame us "negative, angry, bitter, misogynists" for their failures. lol

I do remember one on the Atlanta board who was dubbed "flaky" by the community. She was a pleasant change of pace, because she flatly admitted to being a "drunk hooker' and as I have a weakness for "drunk hookers" she actually repaired her reputation on the boards, but she did have a serious hole to dig herself out of.