Now why would we do such a thing when we're paying for it? We're entitled to excellent service for our donation right? You monger guys will probably rail on this post but every once in a great while we run across someone who's very nice and real. We do nice things for the ATF and sometimes they do nice things for us in return. And sometimes people from very different backgrounds and generations apart find that they actually get along great. It's an extremely rare thing in this hobby.

My ATF is about the only thing I miss about Chicago since I moved far away from Chicago and Illinois. I sure as hell don't miss Rahm Emanuel, the crime, the traffic, the potholes and the other Chicago bullshit, but man, do I miss my ATF. Oh, I guess I also miss the awesome Chicago restaurants.

All of us like being thanked for doing exceptional work - it's a morale booster. Even better, we like being recognized as exceptional human beings and that's one thing which often gets lost in this hobby.
When there's mutual respect and admiration between both parties, it becomes a great experience. Add in some caring about the other person as a real live human being and it's shock and awe at its finest

It is nice to get something back in return " a simple thank you"... Especially when two people connect in a way and the chemistry is there. It is very sweet of you to post this and for myself I say "thank you!" Your ATF is a lucky woman!
Love
Zana

Posted By: Polish_Pirate

Now why would we do such a thing when we're paying for it? We're entitled to excellent service for our donation right? You monger guys will probably rail on this post but every once in a great while we run across someone who's very nice and real. We do nice things for the ATF and sometimes they do nice things for us in return. And sometimes people from very different backgrounds and generations apart find that they actually get along great. It's an extremely rare thing in this hobby.  
   
 I have a great ATF so I'm giving her a shout out and a thank you for being such a terrific woman. Thank you for treating me so well, you are a gem in this hobby and so greatly appreciated

Hahaha... just busting your balls.

meaning not you in specific, but the generic you.

If you want to thank your ATF for being a great person fine, but please leave it at that, and don't turn your post into a PSA telling all guys to thank OUR ATF's (if we even have one) as well.

That's the irritating part about these types of threads, it's like saying "treat her well" as if the rest of us are going to abuse her if not for reading your words telling us to not you.

I know I speak for many other guys when I say the first thing that comes to my mind when reading OP's like this is "who the fuck are you to be lecturing me?" In your case I know that this is not the case (or at least I think I do), but it still smacks of both sucking up AND giving the rest of us a lecture. So if it's all the same to you, when praising your ATF for the glorious creature that she it, please leave the rest of us out of it. When I want to thank the women I sleep with, I am perfectly capable of doing so on my own, and a post on a fuck board will be the last thing that will be on my mind when I do so.

It got me thinking how I might offer a more heart felt expression of appreciation for a wonderful session.
Not all sessions are 'wonderful'. I am very very grateful when a woman can make me glad that I'm a man. Not to be confused with a woman who can quickly and skillfully move thru a variety of positions within the hour and bring me to an intense orgasm....but I'm getting off point here. I appreciated the post. I'm searching for the words that would more clearly express my gratitutude for a woman that is doing more than just 'providing'.

how sweet...

Well said MD well said!!!!

But even without shilling which would probably have gotten the thread pulled, GaG managed to ream me a new one. Not unexpected, LOL. I'm surprised a few others didn't jump in, I had a solid list in mind when I posted and none but GaG showed up. Where the hell are the rest of you mongers? Tongues tied up somewhere else

I thank her everytime I see her. I'm lucky to have found her.

I thought I was quite civil and actually gave you the benefit of the doubt as to your intentions. lol

I will say the bulk of these types of OP's are to simply curry favor and say "Look at me!!!"

You have been around long enough to know when I truly want to "ream someone out" and do you really think my post reached that level??? lol

Just giving you some grief GaG. I'm surprised at the silence of the mongers, much like the calm before the storm so I better be careful on this post, lol.

That's exactly the way I see it, nothing but random luck that our paths crossed.

It's about all the sessions and the time in between those sessions. It's about appreciation and mutual respect, politeness, personality, and kindness. It's about traits that all humans (not just mongers) like in others.

So totally agree.

My All time ATF..... I have many ATFs but he's number 1 in all aspects... Not only is he someone I have fantastic chemistry sexually, but intellectually & sometimes emotionally...  He's been there for me when I've needed minor to major things, very encouraging in my higher education...  But I adore all of my ATFs, those whom are in the city of Chitown  & others in different states I tour..   Thank you for being wonderful fun men ever girl drams of!!! Woo whoo!!