what is the best way for verification for a first time with an independent?
Room Service as most ladies are being very careful. Truth is that there are some ladies that a RS membership wouldnt be enough for, they simply have to have a provider referance(which you dont have and cant get till you see someone, vicious circle). Thank LE for the stringent screening. Unless of course you are willing to goto a great agency like Secretly-Yours.com which I dont think REQUIRES you to have a provider ref but then they use extream discretion as to who does and doesn't get seen. Good luck
I also ask for the phone number to the main switchboard where a potential client works then ask for them by name. That way you know they work where they say they work and are not LE. Hope that helps.
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