I was recently with a provider, one that I have seen on several occasions, but the last two times I have noticed an odor from her vagina.  I know she is a clean person and there is no presence of the odor during DATY, but once intercourse begins I start to notice the odor.  I have been around a long time and know there is always a slight odor, but this gets to be very strong and starts to be a turn off.  How can I let her know about this without upsetting her? She is a sweet young lady, but I am surprised she has not noticed the odor.  Any advice would be much appreciated.

How many flies have you eaten and kept silent? Don't worry about her feelings. You are nothing more then an envelope to her so just come out and tell her that it stinks. If you can't man up to a hooker, then move on and find one that is clean.

Here are the issues as I see it:

- something may or may not be off in her coochie
- telling her could offend her or embarrass her
- not telling her means you probably won't see her again

 
How to tell her tactfully so you might see her again:

- maybe email her with a link to this? that might backfire though seeing you were posting about it
- email her mentioning you were concerned for her health and explain she may need medical attention
- offer to maybe take her: it can be embarrassing to even make the call for help
- suggest maybe it was an off day, maybe she had noticed too, is everything ok now (or something)

 

Good Luck - Be Safe

Thank you Julia for your caring heart and I agree with you. I apologize for my reaction to Panether 12.............If he could just word things definitely, I could relate. I grew up with 3 brothers, in a County Club home and I am just not used to that kind of Red Neck Language............And no "Honey............You will never be my type..........."Thank God!" Kelley

I am not trying to be rude. I guess it how you say something. Words are containers of power, they can make or break your day. Speak Life to those who cross your path........An encouraging  word is what can bring life to someone, a discouraging word.......you no, fuck up your day.......Kelley

Everyone here words things differently. Viva la difference! The beauty of an inet chat board isn't that we are all the same, it's that we are all different.

Enjoy your day.

Yes, I like positive, I over reacted...........It is just how so rude to say you are sill "fuxxing with what???? I mean come on............Be a Gentleman............Thank God for Julia and her Wisdom....Kelley

OK joke time people,  
A blind man walks into a lumberyard and asks for a job. The manager looks at him and says, "what job could I possibly give you that you could do?" The blind man says, "I can identify any wood by smell."
So, the manager decides to test him. He holds up a board up under the blind man's nose. The blind man takes one whiff and says, "Cherry. Don't waste my time."
So, the manager holds up another board under the blind man's nose. The blind man takes one whiff and says, "Pine. From Maine. Cut down 3 days ago."
The manager is amazed so he decides to give him one more test. He picks up his wife and holds her under the blind man's nose. The man sniffs once and then sniffs again. Slowly he says, "Turn it over."
The manager turns his wife over. The blind man sniffs again and says, "Turn it back over." The manager does so and the blind man sniffs one last time.
Finally, the blind man says, "Aaaah, see, you're trying to fool a blind man. That's a shiathouse door off an old tuna boat."

Dr. Julia is probably right and I like her answer. Tough subject.

Here's a belated Christmas gift from yours truly. Panthera.

Wait, whether you want or dont want to see her again... Still tell her!!

Aria, Drew, Panthera... Wow Ya'll make me laugh....  

Julia.. Spot on!!  

Stay warm everyone

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Panthera....Let me say this, you are very smart, and yes, every post I have read from you is usually correct. I just like the way you word things and I think The "Red Neck /wind Chime" suits you just perfect.  

I have been able to email people with whom I have seemed to have had a misunderstanding, and it did make a difference. I do apologize for the way I Re=Acted to "How you word things."  

You seem like such an intelligent person...........I have removed my remarks and did not feel good about them.  

Yet, listening to George Carlin was great. At least He makes sense and He is was "Rich" from "His" humor
I grew up in a home with 3 brothers, and If I ever used that language you used to express yourself, .........it only took a few times of Dad washing my mouth out with soap, to learn how to speak proper English............

I can't change you and you cannot change me. Serenity Prayer, .........So, from Now on I will either just take a break from here or try not to respond to what you have to say......Foxworthy.........

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Then we both can be confused and misunderstood at the same time

Panthera 12, yes we can with a big bottle of wine of course. You are very smart. I just have to learn not to Re-Act to the way you express things. You definitely get everyone's attention........I remember when I got a DUI long ago, I went to an AA meeting in Charlotte very late at night. There was a Nun who ask everyone to try to express themselves without using fowl language or cursing.

This one guy did express himself, and I did understand every word he said. He opened the room up with his emotions and I thought it was great. After the meeting when I was leaving and feeling very Spiritual, the Nun stopped me and said, "I hope you were not offended" "These are the only words that some people have to express themselves"

I told her it was one of the best meetings I had been to and it if this person had not been there, then I would not have gotten the message I needed at the time.

So....living outside the box, being misunderstood and confused at times, many times is just part of being a highly evolved person..........I love your humor to.........Thanks, Kelley