Any ladies going to see Boston in Charlotte in June?  I would like to meet you,not to play, just to put a face (among other things) to your posts.  And yes I know you have websites,but being a newbie building references it could cut tbrough some waiting.  Besides it would be fun!  Disclaimer:  this is not a prelude to stalkjng...

Meet & greets do not qualify for references.
At least as far as I have ever known.

The white list feature on here is for "successfully completed sessions" (as per description)
as are the "ok's" on p411, which have a VERY stern warning about OK'ing a man you haven't had a "completed session" with  at the risk of losing your provider account if found out to be otherwise....
m&G is ok for that chick I suppose, but it won't get you any referrals.

Nice try though

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I'm sorry my post was misleading.  My intent was to perhaps just say "Hi"and meet a person with whom I might find attractive.  The same benefit may befall the lady as well.  Then later on I could mention the meeting along with my references and the lady might remember "Well, at least this guy was clean-cut and polite.". It was not an attempt to circumvent any tried and true process.  I've never been to a meet and greet but I would imagine they sure as hell aren't held at rock concerts.  But I'm probably mistaken about that as well.  Physical attraction and good karma are important to some folks.  I don't jerk off over web sites or forum posts.  Just forget it,YEESH!

Did you consider that if she's not there with you, she's there with someone else? Do you think that she'll ditch her friends/family/SO just to say hi to some stranger?

Who mentioned ditching their friends/family/SO?  Only if the opportunity were convenient for her, it would be just to say "Hi, how are ya, nice to meet you, _________ (fill in the blank.)  I wasn't looking for a date, hook-up, or appointment.  Did you consider that as smart as these ladies are, they might consider a chance to briefly evaluate a prospective client with absolutely no cost, risk, or danger incurred, while at the same time taking advantage of some free advertising?  And the perks for both parties would be to see if there might be chemistry or no.  A bonus for me would be to perhaps meet someone about whom I could fantasize, making a later meeting (after the much-lauded and prized references were checked, scrutinized, notarized, and tucked away) that much more intense.  But geez, this idea has already become too much work, so fuck it.  I'll just go stick my head in the biggest amp there.

Madame Julia, I couldn't imagine anyone turning you down anyway, but thank you for validating my intent.  And by no means do I imply that the ladies in this community need to take advantage of every chance to showcase themselves or work the crowd.  I'm keenly aware that all can afford to be very selective.  I just thought this hobby was supposed to be fun, intriguing, impulsive.  For me, at least, it will continue to be, and if the haters don't like it, they can bite me.

Does that have to be a written request?