secret life with friends or is it that sacred to you? I wonder because I rarely get asked to attend football/poker parties but love them. Is it because your afraid your buddy can't keep a secret or you want your provider all to yourself?
I do get some of couples ask me but its rare they have that great/open of a relationship.

I think its mostly because society has such a bad light on the hobby and alot of the time it is mistaken for banging street hookers and STD's blah blah blah.  Now when you say get invited to a football party do you mean like "hey we're having a party come on over" or "Im having a party, heres $$ come over for 2 hours"  Dont take that personal but those are 2 totally different situations.  If Im paying for your time then I dont wanna share with my friends regardless of how close they are.  Of course happy-time is all mine, but some us also pay to be the center of your attention.  If you ever wanna stop over for a BBQ though just let me know hahaha!  

but why in the world would I pay a woman three hundred bucks an hour to play cards?

As far as OTC activities, I have gotten to be friends with many ladies in this biz and do a lot of things together, both in her circle of friends and my own. I don't have the least bit of shame about having a "hooker on my arm" but if your questions is "would I pay for it?" then the answer is a resounding NO.

For the record, I am happily divorced and my own boss, and quite frankly don't care about what other people think about what I do, they can either accept it or not. Their choice.

Some of them as old as 21. lol

Actually to tell the truth, most of the ladies that I "go out" with, not just fuck. tend to be thirtyish.

As for running around with guys for free, I simply gave her the guys perspective about why she wasn't being invited to card games, etc. It's one thing to pay $300 hr for sex, it's quite another to pay someone that kind of coin to simply "hang out"

I only referred to OTC activities that I enjoy with women in this business so she would know that it is a financial decision not to pay hookers, simply to hang out, and that it's not because I/we don't want to be seen in public with  hooker. As I have said many times, "some of my best friends are hookers" I certainly have no shame about being seen in public with my friends.

and I will gladly take you to an event. You just have to go along with my older sister role and keep your hands to yourself.

I promise not to charge you for my time, so even steven is the name of the game with me although I would reward you if you wore jeans and those boots that I like so much.

A few years ago I had a UTR provider who also lived very close to me so we became friends outside of our "arranged meetings". She got pregnant and decided to keep her baby and was semi-retired except for a couple regulars. I would help her fix things at her home or fix minor car problems and she would help me cater parties by fixing food or acting as bartender. After her baby was born, she once called me to fix her breast pump....oh the fun we had with that toy! The good times lasted a few years until she found her current husband and she got out of the business as they say.

I mean, honestly, isn't it a bit pathetic to come here and whine about why guys aren't willing to pay about ten times what the average man makes per hour JUST to have some woman play cards or watch football with him?

I can only imagine my lawyer or accountant asking me to pay them for playing cards with me. The least she could have done if she were making a ThreAD would have been to say that she doesn't charge full hourly rate for these non BCD activities. Sheesh. I mean "I" still wouldn't bite at any price, but I am sure there are plenty of lonely guys who would.

Thanks Stasia, I thought I was back in a "yahoo chat room" 10 years ago with all this drama, jeez how things get all misconstrued by just asking a question.
To each their own. Peace & Love to all always!

No different. They all came here. However, we're pretty calm and civilized compared to to GD board.

And I've seen some pretty obnoxious threADS posted on other boards. Different style of writing but definitely threADS!

Sorry you were thrown under the bus.

xoxo,

Steph

..  Most people in my life, know what I do.. Therefore no need to hide, or sneak or most importantly LIE..  . Some know exactly, some know just adult industry. I have been fortunate to have a circle  that accept 'Lil' Bit' for exactly whom she is... Have plenty of friends whom I can talk to regarding the hobby.. .Very few people are open minded to accept it... Some are jelouse, some are haters.. You just gotta chose wisely whom you chose to share with!!

Why are you always such a manhating whiner? Just curious.  

Posted By: JuliasLittleSecret

Some of us have a mortgage, kids to feed, college to pay for...we don't have time to run around with guys for free!  LOL  Fortunately there are plenty of men who see the value in paying a woman just for her time as well.    
   
   
 

Well! I agree,with this!

Posted By: JuliasLittleSecret

That's why it's not getting much of a response, or not the one desired.    
   
 Again, she would have done much better posting a football date package on the ad board.     Oh, and I get laid plenty.  Never a problem.  LOL  =))  
   
 I should elaborate a bit for better understanding...  
   
 The OP wondered why she wasn't invited to more football parties.  Well, has she advertised for them?  Does she have a football party package listed on her ad/site?  No, she doesn't.  She's planting an idea out here on the regional board.    
   
 Now, there's absolutely nothing wrong with planting an idea, but this is not the board to do it on.  She would get a much better response by putting together a football party package on her ad/site and promoting it that way.  Pick a team, throw on a jersey, and take some hot pictures to promote it.  
   
 If you follow the OP's posting on other boards, you will see a pattern of threADs on the regional boards to attract interest.  Yes, we all want to attract interest, myself included, but we do better when we use the tools the way there are meant to be used.  If we don't, then we are going to get called out on it.  I have in the past, and knowing me, I will likely be again at some point in time.  LOL  
   
 IMO... "The call is good."    
   
   
   
   
   
   
 xoxo

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I used to feel that way, All I have to add is just be careful of negative people who want what you have yet are not willing to go thru what you have to get there. Kelley