What guy does not enjoy a lady stroking his member. Sometimes it's as good as a BJ or intercourse. But through my years of hobbying I get the sense that manual stimulation by her partner is not near the top of a woma's enjoyment list. Even though a man maybe well groomed I sense the woman would rather be stimulated orally or by a toy being used by her partner. I have never felt that a woman enjoys a finger fuck unless it is slow and in conjunction with her clit being orally stimulated.
Am I wrong on this? It's just my experience and wanted to confirm with the ladies.when a lady doesn't enjoy it, it may because the gentleman:
- is forcing a dry finger in (ouch)- has rough calluses or nails that can cut her delicate inner tissues (double ouch)
- is thrusting it in using too much force
- is attempting to reach her g-spot, and pressing against her bladder instead and so on, and so on... then again, some ladies simply don't like a finger in them, no matter how well it behaves, LOL. I'd say to always ask before attempting entry! And thus ends Tabu's Tuesday Tutorial, LOL
Buy her a toy (ask her what she really likes)
Ask her to show you how she likes to use it. (love this part)
Give it a try when you think you have it down.(take direction)
Enjoy
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The only time I'm certain that I got a girl off with my hand was by accident. I was more interested in the movie and fell into a repetitive, soft, thing. Surprised me, but I acted like I knew it all along.
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Women would rather be manually stimulated by the toy rather than a mans hand.
What brought this to my mind was a craving for a mutual masturbation session; but for it to be mutually pleasurable, I was thinking it would be better to use a vibrator on the lady while she is using her hand on me. Just thinking ahead.Ask her to show you how she likes to use it. (love this part)
Give it a try when you think you have it down.(take direction)
Enjoy
Every client tries to ram his fingers into the girls thinking the Porn, jack-hammer, technique is what girls like or those 'How to make every woman squirt' videos, which tell the guys to insert 3 fingers and tap upward hard until she gushes like a open fire hydrant, (or slaps the shit outta you for being a dumbass.) The point is the girls get tired of being man handled by clients.
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The only time I'm certain that I got a girl off with my hand was by accident. I was more interested in the movie and fell into a repetitive, soft, thing. Surprised me, but I acted like I knew it all along.
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My vote goes to the rabbit vibe. Awesome time
as said, ask a 1000 ladies get 1000 answers. for me, is always a second or third course, after lady is relaxed and wet. i always start with just the tip of one finger and see how she responds; for some that may be all they want, some end up wanting 4 fingers with vigor. as always, YMMV.
the old sailor