But I need more than 2 days notice of your arrival in my city or nearby?
 So often I have to pass on seeing a touring lady. I especially find it frustrating when she has been on my bucket list.
   Ladies please post at least 2-4 weeks in advance! Is that possible all the time?

Sometimes we get last minute requests for an area, and the requester makes it worth our while to go (a multi-hour request, for example).  We may then advertise for that area just to see if we can pick anything else up while we're there.  

So if you really want to see someone and they don't normally tour your area, your best bet is to make it worth her while to see you.

I understand that, and often invite ladies into Wilmington,For extended dinner dates! However I am seeing, day before or same day arrival post. Impossible for me to make that type of last minute connection.

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Well that's what I am talking about," first time I crashed and burned" things looking better now!

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I have asked ladies to let me know when they are coming back into the area and I often get on some day in the future and email that says , tomorrow I will be there.  Kinda makes it hard if you have scheduled out 2 weeks in advance with other ladies

on both sides.  I certainly appreciate knowing you are in town and have some availability but it generally helps to know at least a week in advance.  That being said I know it works both ways.  I was contacted just this morning from one of my favorite providers about being in town today but without better prior notice I am covered up in work and other appointments!

Yes, when you burn the candle at both ends, one end seems to burn faster than the other creating a mismatch of when they meet(  

The ladies have their lodging, travel, etc. needs, and we guys have our work, families(not me anymore), etc. that we have to consider, and, of course, we have to open our check books to see if there is any hobby $ available for her time, soooooooo, it is a wonder that we meet in the middle at all sometimes)  

AND, if we guys miss watching the boards for a couple of days, the ladies pass us like ships in the night, and we go "Damp It!" Missed her again(,,,,,,,,,,,

After I win millions of $ in the lotto tomorrow night, I'm gonna have a safe house  with 10 bedrooms and I'm gonna Velcro the ladies to the furniture therein so that I don't miss them when they come to town. Hmmmm, wonder how long those millions will last when all 10 show up at the same time, and for lengthy stays)

For a date tomorrow. Man, can I pick the sunny times to go or what, lol? NOT! This is what happens when you plan a coastal visit in advance!

I'll be packing my big umbrella for sure...

I think I'll be heading back down again though, so hopefully the weather will  be sunny next time!

xoxo,

Steph

There's a good chance they didn't know they were going to be at a certain place until the day before.

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Your always welcome

And I would dare say, he is one very happy gent!

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Thanks Na"you're good at marketing. It's nice that you consider other people the way you do grateful for people like you

She's not emotional she's passionate.

Oh Ted you wouldn't happen to be Irish would you play golf?

But I have a good friend who is and makes frequent trips to Jersey to play. Have you met him?

Irish Catholic friends are a great source of priest jokes.

But you already know that!