Ladies, please white list your rendezvous's here...if you need to know how, just go to Reviews tab, Search White list and enter reviewer's name or client's username if they didn't do a review. When I get a private message and click on their name, I can't see the gals they have reviewed but can see if they have referrals that have white-listed them. A huge help.

Guys, if you can remember to ask them to do this for you, it helps when you are making a date through this site.

Just thought I'd put this up as a reminder to all. Very helpful for all involved.

Thanks!

I give a white list to a guy who I would see again and recommend  
If you became a member it might help with your screening, then you can see who they reviewed and read the detail

Glad you clarified that for me lmao. I know that. I only white list guys deserving so which most in my book do, so there.  
This is not my first rodeo...5 years later...
cheers!

I really could care less about your private details, just that he's safe; I'm "member" enough thanks
This was meant for those who do not "know" and are negligent, bye!

The lady you replied to was not being snarky, (Such as yourself) nor did she give any "private" details. She replied to your post in a respected manner and you took upon yourself to insinuate that if providers are not whitelisting clients, we are negligent in not doing so.  
FYI....The Ladies that are connected here ( TER Boards) are well aware and handle their own "Whitelist" as they see fit to their own personal discretion. Not all clients review. Just the same as, not all providers whitelist.  

Men are drawn to Southern women because we know how to charm them with sweetness, not bitterness!

Even if I would see the gent again.

So please do not try to force your business practices onto others who wish to try to remain slightly UTR.

Every gal handles their business practices differently, and some of us actually pay for this site to see those details, instead of using the whitelists for free.

+1000!
 Not sure wtf happened but no reason to be bitchy to someone trying to help.

but usually if a gentleman asks me to. I see alot of lurkers from here and on other well known boards. Many tell me that they would rather see a UTR lady than one that has to post on every subject available. It's got alot to do with discretion Happy Day to You!

END OF MESSAGE

Then you know precisely why most ladies do not use the white-list.
You know where to find the information you seek, however, you also know that screening sites are not free.
I suggest you invest... IJS...

And as far as the white list, I only do it when it is requested by the gentleman....

Foxy

I prefer to see a gent several times before white listing...although I have done so if a man is so completely wonderful and desired it.   You still need to do your homework and screen.

I won't pre-judge you based on your snarky response to SC who seemed rather genteel in her comment. It's seems you mellowed a bit with this post, but an apology wouldn't be out of the question.  

Manners and being politeness goes a long way in this business. It's served me well over the years, almost 15.  

Btw, your OP was quite reasonable but not perfectly clear. Not that you care about MHO

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Hmmm, interesting responses. Like many of you, I have a hard time biting my tongue or keeping my opinions to myself.

By all means, I did not mean to start a riot (no pun intended).  

I just did not feel the OP required responses, more of a friendly reminder.

Interpretations in texts as well as message boards cannot be construed properly usually because we can not hear inflections.  Apology to those I have offended by my sarcasm or how you perceive the statements made.

My intentions were well after traveling and meeting some TER gentlemen who were unaware of the White List.

It is helpful to them as well as providers. So thank you ladies who do provide references and participate with positive interactions.  

Reference friendly,
Holly

and I totally agree with your comments on how email/text can be misinterpreted ... as if you have to explain your explanation lo