Does anyone know about the Big Swinger Party in Charlotte tonight advertised on BP. $150.00 for single men. Is this a ripoff?

I always listened to the wisdom my wonderful Mom gave to me in that low, sweet voice of hers that was disguised as just a lil love suggestion, nothing more, but that lil voice forced my brain to "think abut it)". I would listen to the advice, disguised as a "Momism" these two ladies give in the same way) I know that they are both real life MOMS, soooo, I trust their judgement)

The swing scene is NC is rather lame in my opinion. Raleigh and Charlotte have some decent groups, and Greensboro does too, but nothing like Miami or Atlanta or LA.

You've not lived unitl you have done a Killing Kittens party in London or Sanctum in LA.

I have been to a party like you describe, but usually LSers want to stay low key, so an add on BP is very odd, and I would guess is going to turn into a full blown (no pun intended) sausage fest with very little participation by the ladies unless you get lucky enough where one wants to pull a train or be gangbanged....at the best, it's gonna be a roll of the dice.    
 

I will wager that the massive swingers party is actually a commercial enterprise. They seem to have recruited some ladies and are most likely renting a hotel room for the 'party'. It's not a swingers gathering in the true sense of the word, more like an orgy with a paid admission.

there are several legit websites that advertise for the lifestyle.. i am longtime swinger of 15 years...each sites is great for the specific area you live in.. there are hoteltakeover parties,clubs,social events, resorts, cruises, etc.

I'm involved in the kink/BDSM community and a lot of the events coincide with swinger events...The only thing I ever see that early in the week is rope practice/munches/sloshes...

Besides...single guys are probably not going to get much play at a swingers party.  Try your local kink community where events are more single male friendly.

Are there any that have manicurist there too?  

Asking because I need both and am hopeful. Both meaning a good-time party and an awesome manicurist. Last time I was in town I wasn't satisfied with either...

Just sayin...