Anyone ever show up at an in-call/out-call only to be surprised by meeting someone you know in the outside world?

Hmm, maybe they peeked through the peep hole and had to make a decision to open or not open the door...

But if it did I would do what any gentleman would do.  Bang the daylights out of her.  LOL

those whom I know in the civvie world.  If they actually opened the door then it's on like Donkey Kong

Ahh the difference between men and women or is that provider and clients.. Men would say screw it... Let's get it on... Women would have the strength to say NO... I assume SweetMelissa your "professional circle" is your non-hobby professional circle... Actually, for me.. It I would be too embarrassed to carry on... I have enough challenges....

A colleague set a party up for us with a couple working girls. Neither of us had met them but they came highly recommended.  When we entered their apartment I was horified to discover my "date" was a lady  who had  worked for my organization.  Note I said HAD.....I fired a couple weeks earlier.  Awkward , to say the least.

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I guess the obvious answer to this problem (for providers) would be screening. Not just for checking for a criminal background, but to make sure you're not booking a date with someone you know. As for us hobbyists, I've got nothing.

Well, I've not dropped my name at a lot sessions. They just know me by my phone number (hobby phone) or by my email address... I have actually had only ONE provider ask for my photo id and that was awkward because i had mentioned another first name in discussions. Then again, those that do P411 verify do get my first name. Not sure if that can be gotten around

So far, I've opted to keep those worlds separate and not try to "surprise" her, but I can't say I haven't been tempted! (It seems like a flip of the coin as to whether the meeting would be hot or totally go to shit.)

This has NOT happened to me.. I would be soo embarrassed that I would probably pee. Even if she took my hand and pulled me in the room, I would be too mortified to "stand up"... Which is a challenge for me anyway.  

Stasia, you mentioned "screening"... I don't see how that would work... We are just phone numbers, fake first names, email addresses... etc.... Unless you see the face, or get a whole real name. Oh, I know ask for a FAX of the driver's license.

But did you have a good time?

I live outside of Columbia, but I will only indulge in entertainment in Charlotte, charleston, Wilmington, or Raleigh.  This practice minimizes the risk of meeting someone I know IRL!

To me women are like felines, they do not like giving up their space, me included. Meow, LOL, Kelley

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Happened to me twice actually..   First time was brutal in a sense..  There were no face pic's on her ad just body shots w/ a blacked out face and so forth..  Apparently, she didn't recognize my phone number,  she texted me and said the door to the room was open and that I could walk in...  And so I did and when I did...  I saw a good friend's baby sitter... LMAO..   She was so embarrassed, while wearing a hot sexy outfit to boot..   I sat her down and we talked about it all and told her not to worry about it..  She asked if I still wanted to go through w/ it. but I kindly said that I would have to excuse myself..    
But on a good note: 3 months later her services were not needed at the sitter job cuz they moved out of state, and then about a month after they left I got a text from her w/ a hotel and a room number..  =~):     I still talk to my buddy and eventually told him and he thought it was so funny and was glad it was me and not him..

the 2nd one..  I was referred to this wonderful lady by the con.cierge..  He has never let me down..  I told her what I was looking for and he said this is the lady u want to see..   So I called her up, made a date..   And when we met we both looked at each other in disbelief like no possible way..   She was an office assistant at one of my clients' office..    Even worse she was one of the ladies in the office that would call into our office to set up a service ticket..   can we say hashtag awkward!!!   We ended up going out to dinner and laughed about everything.. I would of never expected it and she said the same thing about me..  And, I would love to ask her out and actually date her, but I told her that was a personal rule of mine was not to mix business w/ pleasure...    Her response was my side business is pleasure.. lol..

 

 
 

I agree with you about playing close to home. I will not do it because I don't want to meet or know someone I play with. Don't want to be out in public and see someone I have played with and I sure don't want to run into them so I always play away from the home turf. Just a smart move IMHO!