For the ladies: Do you recall your first BJ?  Was it a request from the person you were seeing or was it something you wanted to try?  If you allow CIM, what was it like your first time?

I remember how awkward I was just finding a clit either with my fingers (back seat of my "66 Mustang at a drive-in) or my tongue.  ("Is that the right spot?")  We were both 18.

My ex thought I took the term "sucking off" too literally...Luckily I got better!  The first time I experienced CIM was embarrassing as I choked on it lol...you live and you learn.

I was 17. It was my first sexual experience....the best man at my sister and brother-in-laws wedding. I had no idea what I was doing, but wanted to try everything. I'm sure I sucked at it (pun intended)

Is that two scenarios us mongers just dream of?  Been the best man a couple times, thinking back any of the brides sisters would could have been a lot of fun.

Sometimes all a guy has to do to have a little fun at a wedding is strike up a wholesome conversation.  I get immediately turned off by guys who come on to strong (a girl likes a little chase But if the guy is kind and confident and fun, I am putty in his hands.

I was about 17, and she was a few years older.  My first "let's just fool around" girlfriend, if you understand.  It was something of a command performance, and I didn't have the first idea what I was doing (enthusiasm only goes so far).  Happily, she knew what she wanted and wasn't shy about providing me with detailed instructions.  It ended up being a lot of fun...certainly for me at least.  I don't know that I've ever gotten good at it, but it definitely remains at the top of my list.

Was the fulfillment of a dream with absolutely NO idea of how to do it or what/where anything was.  All I knew was her holiest of holies was in front of me with wet panties and she had an encouraging gleam in her eyes and sighs on her lips.

but PM is even better.