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It’s now been 7 weeks since I (in hindsight) stupidly sent a deposit for a 2 hour outcall while I was in Myrtle Beach to Dee
For almost a week prior we had exchanged emails, texts and a couple of pleasant conversations
She is still advertising on TRYST Myrtle Beach She has reviews here on TER (273709) BTW. TER will not let me post review because I never actually met her therefore could not rate her looks https://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/dee-9105383497-273709
Sorry that happened to you. That really sucks. I looked at her Tryst add and you may have saved yourself some $$$. Her ad states “Uogrades available”, which means upsell.
Yeah. thanks but between our emails/ texts/ phone calls we had agreed on services (FS/BBBJ/Multiple pops) provided in a two hour session for a specific agreed upon donation
The “upgrade” is basically extending the session to 2 hours wherein the ad she just lists a $300 donation but under that it states outcslls are a 2 hour minimum which requires a deposit
And providers wonder why we as hobbyists decline to pay deposits.
Some even become incensed if you decline, even nicely, to refuse to pay a deposit.
I can actually understand why LEGIT providers, especially traveling ones require a deposit
I’ll bet there are far more hobbyists that are no shows essentially costing the ladies money than what happened to me
I am mindful of the many discussions on TER re deposits.
In a free market, a provider and hobbyist are welcome to agree on a deposit.
While I understand a provider's perspective, my perspective is that of a hobbyist.
Based on my own prior experience and countless others involving deposit ripoffs, I choose not to pay a deposit.
Some providers are requesting “show stopping” 50% deposits. That is insane.
Never Ever pay a deposit. 85 % of the time you will get screwed out of it or regret even seeing the provider who demanded it. Exceptions do apply but most times its money gone out of your pocket forever.
EVER!
It's all about trust. If a provider doesn't have great consistent review so I trust her, I won't pay a deposit. It's that simple. Too many scammers out there. Ever try snap chat content providers. 6 out of 7 were scammers.