As someone who has been considered young for being a hobbyist (By a Buddy on TER Chat), you would expect that I lean towards seeing providers that fall within the 18-30 age range. That is not true. I absolutely love being w/ Mature providers who are older than me (By at least 5-8 years). I enjoy mature providers because with age comes wisdom. With a mature provider, I can have an Intellectual conversation with them about anything on any subject. The Majority of girls I've seen and met with (Both in public and behind closed doors) who are near my age just can't seem to hold a conversation like that. Next to point out is that with age comes experience. Even though I've been a hobbyist for over a year and have seen over a dozen women, I still see myself as a newbie in some ways. Mature providers are patient and wise for they have seen/done it all, and have been in enough situations where they know how to deal with a client who as his own quirks, needs, preferences, questions, etc.... Young providers, they Don't. Most of the younger providers I've seen are clueless and impatient when it comes to this subject. When it comes to being a passionate lover, Mature providers hit right on target. They truly Define what GFE is. Hot and passionate are two words that can describe what it's like to have an intimate encounter with a mature provider. That's something I've never experienced with a younger provider. And one final point I'd like to make, Mature providers are more energetic and wild in the sack. It seems like 1/2 the time I'm with a mature provider, they want to be on top and have control over how things are going to go down. And at the end of every session I've had with a mature provider, I'm nearly drained all my energy and have a tough time getting home. Mature providers aren't afraid to surprise you like that. Most of the younger providers I've seen aren't like that. They don't give me a "Run For My Money" if you put it that way. Now I'm not completely knocking down on younger providers. I've seen a few who match up with Mature providers. But the rest should either bone up on their skills, or just stop providing. In the end, I just want to show some love to all the mature providers. Here's to the Milf's, Cougars, Divorcee's and other types of mature women who are providing with an open heart and open mind. I adore you and salute you.

Wow, I am impressed, very well said. I appreciate the effort and thoroughness you put into your post. To me it covered a lot of bases. I have had many gent express the same emotions. Of course it always made me feel good.

And we definitely appreciate the gents that appreciate us!!

Maturity does not have to be just a number.
 A mature woman is confident, passionate, and sexy while still being young at heart!!

I can't be WILD and full throttle now but I always love a man who appreciates our life experiences and what we bring to the table!

xoxo,

Steph

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While once in a while I experiment, I would have to say that most of the times I repeat, it is with friends that are over 35...... with one exception of a woman who is mature beyond her years, thanks SD

to join the other ladies in thanking you for your thanks!

As an older guy who's had his fair share of experiences across the entire age spectrum, I agree 1000%. You've done a wonderful job stating exactly what I've experienced over the years.  Yes, there are some very wonderful younger women, but I would LOVE to be able to be with them once they've grown and matured!. Lots of younger women have told me how they dread getting older, thinking that no one will want to be with them.  I've always told them that their fears are totally unfounded: they absolutely will be far more delightful and exciting to be with when they are more mature! It's true!  Mature women ARE the best lovers!!!!  They are so much more interesting to be with, whether having sex or not. My appreciation for them continually grows.

I really did not expect much of a response that I got from posting this. I was expecting some backlash, but apparently things came out all well. I appreciate the responses from this post. This all came about this past weekend after seeing a great mature provider for an hour appointment. One thing she proved that I forgot to mention is that Age is just a number. That's a philosophy I've learned to come by when it comes to women (Both women I meet in public and behind closed doors). It doesn't matter whether a girl is a blossoming mid twenties or a fully developed thirty something, it's who they are as a person on the inside. Looks can be deceiving. This is especially true with these younger girls who are either new to the business and not know what they're doing (And shouldn't be in the business anyways), or are just in it for the money and rip off hobbyists with false advertising. It's glad to know that there are providers in this business who love what they're doing and have a mindset on doing what they do because they enjoy it. I appreciate the thanks ladies (and the other hobbyists of course) for taking time to view this post, and I hope to eventually spend time with some of you sometime in the eventual future.

Most providers I have seen are older than me and I love it lol
With them you get real good gfe plus they are so sexy

I've only had multiple visits with mature provider. Mature providers rock!

Nailed it!  Very true, so much more of a connecion with the mature providers

And I agree 100%...Mature ladies rock!! And like others have said...mature does not mean their age!!

such an awesome post!!! 😘🌾🌹

at any age. I have learned that it's not necessarily ONLY the older ladies that can be mature and I have also learned that not all of the older ladies are always mature. For the most part I agree with the sentiment that mature women are very attractive in that they seem to invest more into the meeting. I also agree that they carry on conversations more easily. However as an older hobbyist I prefer ladies that are younger than myself. Not too young though. I want someone that I can at least relate to in conversation but still young enough to make me remember my own youth and envy her