I’ve seen numerous Doms in both Atlanta and Miami.  None offered full service.  Yes they had me get to the promised land or get me close and edge me if that was my wish.  Enjoy each session.  However, Slave Guineive in San Antonio was a sub and a FS lady.  Best BDSM experience for me ever.  I got to whip her ass and then do anal with her once nicely marked.  Being a switch made that the most fulfilling session ever.
I had a mistress for like 12 years.  We’d switch roles  and after an intense BDSM beating we’d jump in the bed and fuck each others brains out.   Doubt I’ll ever find that with a  professional lady.

Penetration is nice, but the real joy of sex is to lose one's self in the fantasy that a good dominatrix can create for you.

 
Some times these can far outstrip the normal penetrative sex that is taken as the sine non qua of this world.

 
By my own personal experience, you really excel in this.

The pro dommes I session with in ATL continue to rock my world. That's why I keep seeing them. Having said that, a kinky escort with the right attitude and skillset would be the best of both worlds. I'm still searching for that unicorn.

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I am the best of both Worlds! I consider myself a sensual, and sadistic Domina with the added plus + of being a true GFE! I love to role-play & switch as well. I also have a twin sister Goddess Jezebel she’s a 5 star provider here too. ATL I am right here honey. FMTY

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I love this question.  While I don't necessarily need penetrative sex, I do hate the line that pro dommes feel the need to impose.  BTW, I have no problem with them doing it and I understand why they do it.  But the line is a little different for each of them so I'm always nervous about angering them by getting too close to the line.  it's distracting. Does that make sense?

On the other hand, I have a huge fetish for women in leather, and sadly, most escorts simply can't, or don't cater to that.  Either they don't have the wardrobe, or worse, they don't understand the fetish.  Sometimes they show up wearing short booties and a leather belt and think that's going to drive me wild.  At the end of the day, it's been my experience that most kinky escorts, are just escorts looking to cast a wider net and don't really have the ability to really cater to a kink.

It sucks being caught between the two worlds.