Is the best of both Worlds a kinky GFE?

I am curious because I have always advertised as a natural Dominant Woman who is also, a true GFE & maybe PSE if we truly connect. Recently, I started advertising as a switch because as I mature I feel the fun should not be limited because role-playing is the ultimate joy. Everyone is different. Please share. Smile for me!

I have to admit I'm in this category.  I think people get tired of this (hate the term) "hobby" because, from looking at the various reviews, most of them are the predictable "BBBJ, DATY, Mish".  Or "Doggy".  It's almost mechanical, with each party apparently there only to satisfy a particular purpose.  While that may be part of the case, certainly there should be more interesting fun to be had.

Having had a mistress for 12 years whom was a switch I’d welcome an escort that did that.  Would love to tie a lady up and edge her and like did with Slave Guineive in San Antonio years ago use a whip on the escorts ass before doing anal.   Looking down at marks on a ladies ass as she opens her rear door is HOT
A woman can open her mouth , pussy or ass to a click but it’s a rare lady that welcomes a hard spanking or more.
I loved whipping my mistress while she sucked me and I fingered her.  
Just don’t think they’ll ever be a lady in the hobby that would agree to that scene

I thought it meant accepting either a dominant or submissive role.

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Heh, define top and bottom.

I identify mainly as submissive but there are a few things I would like to try with a submissive lady- tie her spreadeagled and (1) tickle her insane (2) edge her unmercifully (3) when she does come give her some i tense post orgasm stimulation with a  vibrator

Years ago on this board I was told you couldn't be a Dominant (which is true  me) and a GFE.  

Well, I didn't listen and been having alot of fun.  

I am not submissive in this life or RL. BUT...there are been a slight few over the years who have taken control and didn't even mind. But a light few. It was the chemistry. But I know me and as a regular situation to be a sub isn't for me. Doesn't do it for me.

I do love what i do and have the best time doing it.  

I believe in this profession, if you aren't having fun from either perspective its time to move on.  

PS: see my smile ? Which I am always doing.. Life is too short!

I love providers who switches and give gfe or pse. There are so few of them. 77

Agree with JoIgo  Hard to find a companinion who offersa BDSM GF experience.  Been searching for years.

I am not hard to find. I love to switch roles! Playing submissive is fun when you have a compatible partner. Chemistry is everything.

Couldn't agree more sexy lady.  It's all about chemistry..  

Switch means, a provider offers top/bottom, dominate one and submissive one.  For a long time, I thought BJ was submissive.  I don't anymore.  I say this, "Do you like my dominant lips?  They say, YES.  I've combined escort and domination in selective sessions.  The hard-core no-sex doms don't like this and the escorts try it.  After years of healing myself from childhood trauma, I'm a dominate female, real and authentic, my true self.  So any man out there who think they will top-dom me, I will tease him like hell.  HA!  In this one session, I looked at him and made him think I was not in control.  Bring it on bro.  It was funny to see, he thought he was dominate.  Hilarious what I did.  They know who I am!

That's a verb not an adjective. You are "dominant."

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So what is your definition of dominate?  This world is very misunderstood.  

Sound like a critical thinking !

I find this hilarious that a human thinks they knows about dominate.  Like always, misunderstood.  I love how they think they know but they don't know.   Wait till you see the TVseries, it's going to kick all assumed ideas out the door.  

Whatever, laughing.  Yeah, I'm the Queen of Awesome Applesauce

Let's see how many subs I had for over 15 years?  Well, like over 100 and still growing.

Are we spazzing out ?  I think so.

WHATEVER ......I guess you're going to find out what a DOMINATE female is.  And, I won't hire you as my editor.  I'm well-known 2 stir it up, ask the cult I left.  It will be in the book, not on this forum.

Zoe Zane aka Fetish Diva Diamond

And as for my "going to find out what a DOMINATE female is," not from you, doll.

it is you.

 
Long may you dominate, or dominant.   Whichever.