I am interested in expanding my limits on a few platforms... to include receiving golden showers, snowballing, and receiving light anal play.  How should I convey these requests, what should I expect?  Particularly with golden showers  - not to be naive but where is she most likely going to aim?

Then, check websites and P411 profiles.  Most ladies have at least some of their kinky interests/preferred scenarios listed there.  Unlike traditional GFE sessions, some conversation needs to take place after screening so you two can determine if your interests match.  Everything is to be negotiated, so you know what to expect.  You let her know your limits and she will respect them.  So, where she pees on you is ultimately up to you.  Stomach? Chest? On your c***?  In your mouth?  Up to you!

In your mouth, on your chest, torso, or where the sun does not shine it all depends on your desires.  Think about your personal wants & needs prior to contacting a provider.  I respect honesty, so when booking simply share your interests & special requests.

I want to figure out how to insert something like this into a dildo, so I can use it with my strap on and do some real gender bending play. I am fortunate to play with a number of cross dressers and to change things up a bit, to the point where I could pee on them with my "cock" would be amazingly hot !!

Funny I was thinking of using that title too!  Smile 4 me!