As an active hobbyist, I am looking for guidance in BDSM, specifically on being a Dom.  Where to start?  Would consider Switch at some points.

Kat and her girls are wonderful, well reviewed providers with a submissive edge, and very good at guiding newbies into their dominant role. They are located in NYC.

Further down the line, if you'd like to switch, come play with me

Consider reading my post to a similar topic about 4 threads down, entitled "Good Information".  Most, if not all, of the same resources pertain to your question.

You would benefit greatly from checking out a lifestyle BDSM group in your area where you can learn how to play safely.  Remember: we want to hurt our subs, not damage them.

Hey there - I'm an indie pro-sub. Come say hi if you'd like.

(P.S. - Sub Kat and her ladies are great too

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Keep an eye out for a new website in approximately two weeks! It's geared toward folks who are interested in dipping a toe into BDSM and will have lots of educational information (not dry textbook articles, more like personal advice and tips from us sub ladies - what we like, don't like and want more of). Good info for hobbying and for bringing home and playing in "real life". Plus lots of sexy photos, behind the "scene" glimpses into the lives of kinksters...and lots of subs and switches at your service!

I can't wait!

I have plenty of fun girlies to play with, unless you enjoy boys too?

SLSK,

Your current site is wonderful and I will anxiously look forward to the new site.  I am Chicago based, but travel extensively so NYC works.  Any referrals for Chicago area?

More than one friend is a great suggestion.  I am in Chicago but go to LA often.

Thanks for the feedback.  I am in Chicago and will seek groups here.  Any referrals?

I have some referrals for both suitable providers and BDSM contacts in the area and would be happy to pass them on privately (via PM or email).

I'm in LA often, and travel to both Chicago and the East Coast by request. If you're looking to session with a switchy redhead who is also a kink educator, drop me a note; I've got experience facilitating from the bottom (while still having fun together) and enjoy helping Doms tap into and learn the skills to fully explore that side of themselves.

Wishing you the best!

Sabrina

Thanks, LeChiffre,

I looked but couldn't find your earlier post on Good Information.  Do you the date it was posted?  Perhaps, I could find it that way.

Again, thx,

JLC

Thank you very much, Sir! Hope we get to see you soon!

Kat (and her friends) are exactly the place to begin in my opinion. Highly recommend.

Tristater,

Great endorsements for Kat.  I like it.

JLC

Link to original post below . . .

If you are based in Chicago, I believe Leather Rose (LRA) is the big BDSM lifestyle club there

Thank you for your generous reply.  Very helpful and specific to my situation.  In answer to your question, I am in the Chicago area.  Also, I am likely to value a more mature coach.

Again, thx,