Depending on the dom I am sure things vary, but for me those assumptions hold true. I do not offer submission in my bdsm sessions at this point , however I will submit to a man in bed during gfe/pse interactions. Both are pleasurable, I guess there are strengths we all develop and things we may decide to keep reserved for our personal lives and not offer the public. Good question!
I know many dom females that what do vanilla . Lol
Make your self clear in request! However I’m guessing your pulling over more and more as time goes to the fem’ side. Enjoy the ride it’s just a ride. It’s not your whole life.
I am far from average, or typical. I am a life-style & a PRO. Donations vary depending upon your individual interests. Everyone is different. The screening process for GFE/PSE is not the same for me, as BDSM only. Always ask the provider before booking, so no one wastes their time.
Hi there,
I'm a provider who offers kink (dom, sub, switch) and traditional GFE experiences, as well as PSE. I was a dominatrix for several years and have a large fetish wardrobe to show for it. Unfortunately most strict doms will not switch or sub, and do not offer the same intimacy as an escort. I offer all of these experiences, and sometimes get requests for specific attire!
Peruse my website - you can see me wearing latex and leather in some of my photos and videos...
xoxo
Devorah
. . . .Everyone is looking for her.
I think it is definitely safe to reach out and ask for a session from full service Dommes (because not all Dommes provide full service) if they'll keep the clothing but not the Domme persona (i.e. the "mindset" of a Domme), especially if they list roleplay. It doesn't have to be roleplay but they'll understand your request. Usually, sub in the context of these ads/websites definitely means that they're not willing to offer sub practices in the traditional KINK sense. Not necessarily in the "femininity" sense.
Dommes come in many flavor. And most of us don't ditch our feminine, sensual sides when we pick up a whip 
For instance, I don't wear the traditional leather and latex in my pictures, and rarely (if ever) in my personal play. One of the things that first attracted me to BDSM is exploring pleasure on my own terms and my domination and sensuality is often an extension of that. I hope it comes out in my own online personality. And ofcourse, part of that is clothing.
Sexuality and sensuality is in the beholder's eye.
Good luck! I hope you find what you're looking for!
I'm also both a Pro Domme and a GFE escort, and have been asked by numerous hobbyists who are aware of both personas, to portray a sort of hybrid of the two personas during our appointments (a GFE with slightly more edge, and perhaps slightly more aggressive). So, I'll confirm what the other ladies have advised: inquire, inquire, inquire! Indeed, it never hurts to ask.
An alternative would be to offer your favorite provider an outfit that she could wear during your sessions. We never say no to new clothes!
I'm not a Domina, I am a GFE provider who enjoys a little kink. But I make it clear I am NOT a pro-dom.
However... I love the clothing and the gear. I have a bit of a fetish myself for the leather, latex and props, but not so much for the actual bdsm activities. The aesthetic turns me on.
I don't know if I would fit your definition of PSE either- my style is very sensual and intimate, but full of passion. Not necessarily soft, or slow. Very intense, but very intimate and responsive. The most "dom" thing I am truly great at is tease and denial, or edging. I don't like to take pictures that would make the average client think I look like a dom, but it's the black leather, corsets, rubber and vinyl that gets me most excited when I'm lingerie shopping on my laptop late at night. I tend to compromise and wear a lot of black lace and satin lingerie with extra straps and hardware for added drama- but I can pull out the stops and go full dominatix costume when asked.
I just wouldn't want to give anyone the wrong idea lol. Write a check with my BDSM wardrobe that my GFE ass can't cash, you could say.
I love to dress and not be a Dom and be vanilla still. It's generally called body worship. Or if u like something specific like latex it's latex worship. If you want sex with it you can always ask. Not saying all provider s offer that but some do with additional money. 
