Just hard enough to make a nice pink glow, no breaking the skin please.

 
I make a pretty good sex slave also.

I do role play.  The first thing I try to do is find out what scenarios she likes.  Unfortunately many submissives, such as is their personality, don't really know what they want. So I end up pulling my punches, so to speak, because I'm not sure how rough they want to go.  

It depends darling…

I am always naturally Dominant, but can be submissive to the right player! Trust is a must & chemistry is everything. Switching, role, and power play is the best way to show your devotion. BIG Fun! What I enjoy is endless, like my creativity.

There's nothing like giving up complete (mostly) control to someone and letting your inhibitions go.  But it has to be someone who knows what they are doing.  Thats a lot of power to hand over.

I've learned (pardon the pun... the hard way) that seeking out established pro-dommes is well worth the extra cost.

I've seen two subs, one in Atlanta and one in San Antonio.  Whipped both but not as hard as I'd have liked.  They took it really well. Slave Quenieve in TX also allows FS so it was hot taking her ass.

I see Goddess Erica in West Palm and giving my body for her to torture is a great way to give up control.  She's a pro Dom and will push me extra hard leaving many marks.

Had a lover for ten years that was a switch.  Marked her ass and back, fucked her after then returned the next day to see the marks and fuck her again.  Any woman can give a guy her pussy, mouth or ass but Lynn was a rare one that allowed me to mark her for my pleasure and it got her very wet when i did it.

So I love both being a Dom and a sub.  The kinkier and harder the better.