Pegging and prostate play can be some of the most enjoyable things that you can experience with the right person. If you have ever thought about indulging in this, I have a few tips on how to make this experience go as smoothly as possible and enjoyable for all.
1. Get some toys and play alone first to get comfortable with the feeling and learn what you like. Try different sizes and materials.2. Get the right lube! I find that water based isn't great for this type of play. Silicone based works best but do NOT use it with silicone toys unless they have a condom on them.
3. Enemas! You can find instructions on how to use these online, I'll leave that to you. This is very appreciated and should be done a few hours before your playtime and leads into the reason for my next tip. There are some providers who provide this as part of the experience.
4. Pre-book in advance. These should be booked in advance to have the best and cleanest experience. See above.
5. Do your research. Watch videos that excite you and then look for a provider that can fulfill the fantasy. There are all types of experiences out there and you are sure to find the perfect fit....pun intended.
1 Imodium the night before and one in the morning,that will help!
I buy stuff at the 99 cent store for pegging. You can get puppy pads that are awesome for unwanted messes & easy clean up. Enemas are individually sold it’s convenient. I even buy latex gloves it’s cleaner & easier.
Playing with yourself is the best advice ever because you need to know your own body. I find using gun oil lubricant on toys for boys is the absolute best. Have fun exploring your anus. The male gspot is located in your prostate, so lube up a few fingers & go at it. I find using a full length mirror helps to identify your pleasure points. Smile for me!
Thank you for reminding folks that the best way to prepare is to get to know themselves a little bit.
If you've literally never touched your own asshole before out of fear or shame, then you might find yourself still too nervous to enjoy yourself when the time comes.
Not to mention the process of cleaning out - its better when you know how to handle yourself.
I have a very thorough blog post about how to warm yourself up, eat with intention, and douche - Please check it out on my website!