Have you ever felt, like your chasing a kinky dream? I have been searching for the most shocking- ultimate kinky desire for decades & I have nothing that I can say, is truly taboo. I find that the older I get the more open-minded I become.
Vanilla, Mild, Wild, Hardcore What are your limits? Please share.Funny you say that. I agree 1000%. The older I get, the more open-minded I have become as well. The kinkier the better.
I say go for it! The more fun, the better! Life is too short!
100% Enjoy & Celebrate Life!
mostly at the urging of others.
But I am still the low end of the scale, especially with things like bondage which I sort of like but has weird repercussions for me (awful nightmares.)
Flogging and prods are OK if done with medium level intensity, and pinching is absolutely the best.
But golden showers and sploshing are the best along with cum sharing.
My kinkometer has gone off the charts the older I get. I am definitely having fun though! I did just start playing with electro play so that was something new. Other than that, I'm very much open to new ideas!
I haven't really run into limits yet lol as long as it's safe, I'm good, so far.
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Have you ever felt, like your chasing a kinky dream? I have been searching for the most shocking- ultimate kinky desire for decades & I have nothing that I can say, is truly taboo. I find that the older I get the more open-minded I become.
Vanilla, Mild, Wild, Hardcore
What are your limits? Please share.
My limits are the obvious kids and pets...
No scat
No electric
No choking
And last but not least... don't pull my hair! I have dreads...that shit hurts lol.
As for everything else I am open to trying anything 2 or 3 times. I am definitely getting kinkier the older I get. Lol
Interesting thread. I also have an expanding interest list but I find that the dommes I see are pretty much locked into their own set of interests.
I often say do the things you have desired but not been able to perform, but it doesn't seem to make much differense.
"What is already understood does not need to be explained."
I am a Mom with kids & a dog. Never.
Now, back to the BDSM limits she said, "NO Scat, No electric play, No choking & No hair pulling!"
= No fun. I provide all of those No's with pleasure & no judgement. I love to choke & pull my lover's hair, usually when on top, straddling, CG. Life is great this is why I truly adore this hobby life-style, there is something & someone for everyone. Electric play can be very erotic. I was introduced to electric play long ago by another female & it was very enjoyable.
Try & try again it's like food, and beverage it can be an acquired taste. I never, liked beer, but now that I am older I love a good IPA. Smile for me & thanks for sharing. I love adult conversations.
I really enjoy e-stim and I'm looking forward to water sports with certain partner.
I also have really enjoyed switching. I am starting to enjoy being the Dom , I'm not sure I can do that with just anyone, but I've found a partner that I really enjoy it with, as well as taking my turn as sub.
There are some activities that I don't enjoy. Pinching, sharp objects, clothes pins (i guess that's pinching), no scat please.
A few months ago, I was being flogged with three different floggers, getting harder and sharper. The lady flogging me commented that she really enjoyed doing that for me because she hasn't found my limit yet. And after that wonderful experience, she brought out the vampire gloves............ Aaaaaagh.
I have, many years ago, been into a really deep sub relationship with one nonprofessional who was just into it for her own pleasure. After our second meeting she told me she saw great sub potential in me and from then on would allow no safe word; but would still allow limits that she considered reasonable. Unlike the professionals who did this for a living she would have dropped me as a sub if my list interfered with what she wanted and later what a number of her friends wanted. I was allowed to set limits which were: no scat,no under age participants, no animals, no physical damage (no broken bones, deep cuts, etc or permanent marks (ie no tattoos.) and no public exposure. No blood and (this was not an interest of hers but was of one of her friends) no filling my balll sack with large amounts of IV fluid thus limiting my ability to function for perhaps days. This last was added when she told she was inviting in two friends and one of them loved to do this. I tried to add a few other things from time to time, but was told each time that I could notI..
My relationship with her was perhaps the most exciting of my life incidentally. (Tho I have had a two year long relationaship with a very very sub and bi lady which was equally if not more exciting.) She brought out the deepest sub in me.
Since I would prefer being the Dom, but haven't actually ever done anything like it, at least in my fantasy I would have limits on inflicting any damage. Also no scat.
No permanent damage.
No breaking your toy.
No drugs.
No animals.
No partners under 21 years old.
No blood play.
No scat play.
No smoking.
No piercing, no temporary piercing, no needle play.
No tattoos. (on me).
No fluid (spit and pee are a fluids) exchange play. I have my hard copy of current clean sex test (chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, HIV and Hep C) to show you. No fluid exchange, no exceptions. Exchange means to place the fluid in to my body or near a place that it would go in my body. Spit and pee on my chest, back, belly, legs is not exchange.
All penetrations with toys are covered, I bring condoms and gloves for all toys.
There is a lot of bloody play even not professionally I am not into. Not into being cut, branded, hook suspension. I like watching others do it that are into it, but personally, I pass.
I feel like bdsm is like a drug lol and as you mature your interests evolve. Things that would do it for me 2 years ago just wouldn't cut it now lol I tend to push my own limits as much as possible in session and different kind of partners are drawn to me these days that have a more advanced, broad, taboo spectrum.... Definitely not mad about it lol
I would never ever want anything to do with enforced circumcision - its ridiculous and can end badly thanks to blood poisoning
I would live to see if I might visit. With every thing locked I am having trouble finding you. I you would I would deeply appreciated a link (website or anything you like).
With fetish and kink play, what are everyone's top 2 or 3 must want and need in a session?
Through nearly 25 years of BDSM play I can say my play has evolved in many ways yet other ways remain the same. I have always had a strong interest in the bondage, restraint, teasing, denial, giving up control piece. These days I too have been leaning toward more "intense" play. Things like spankings/floggings/canning that push my limits are of great interest to me recently. I guess I realized I like it to hurt (in a good way). For me there my must be a strong mental connection, I really crave scenes where the dominant gets inside my head and plays there for the whole session. A pretty thing going through actions of a spanking just don't work for me. Don't get me wrong, there are lots of other items that pretty thing and find to occupy our time. Oh ya, the golden shower thing. Awesome and I have yet to figure out why it excites me so much.
Good to have TER back!