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I often see clients searching for dommes. Are there many clients who seek submissive providers?

There is a ton of submissive female porn.  So there must be a lot of demand for it.  However there aren't many providers who offer it.  I think because the levels of trust needed aren't compatible with a public offering to any and all comers.
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And what does submissive really entail?  It can range anywhere from assertive to brutal.  How do you put that on a menu?

Yes it definitely involves trust. I guess it's hard to put on a menu but on my site I lists what I like: spankings, hair pulling, making out, cuddling, sensual baths/showers, giving and receiving massages, foot rubs, head rubs, breast worship, tease and denial, being acknowledged when I'm a good girl and admonished when I'm not.

Hi there, I'm a kinky companion who selectively offers submission and PSE.

My specialties as a pro-submissive range from mild to wild, including: edging, anal training, bondage, role-play, pet play, impact play, spanking, and watersports.

Read more about my interests here: devorahreine.com/exclusive-experiences

-Devorah

Hi Devorah  
just wanted to say , your website is the best I have seen in years  
Bravo !

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 And what does submissive really entail?  It can range anywhere from assertive to brutal.  How do you put that on a menu?
If they are on Seeking Arrangement, 'submissive' entails that they don't move during sex.

its my thing.  love a great sub that is into choking, humiliation, light slapping.  

For me it's a kink, not a fetish:  desirable but not strictly necessary.  
I like submissiveness of attitude, agreeable obedience.  
I like to tie up a lady, then do to her just about what I'd be doing with her unbound anyway.  
I know one lady who actually enjoys being spanked (shown by her physical responses).  
Pain is not a turn-on for me, but her submission is.

That sounds really hot ;) yeah for me it's equally about being bubbly/agreeable/open minded as well as being spanked and choked etc. I absolutely love being spanked. I've definitely cum from it a few times if I'm turned in enough.

If you're ever in Chicago..... boy could we have fun.  Take everything you mentioned and mix in a bit of edging and forced orgasms (perhaps tied up) and you have a very full evening.  Loved your site.  So Hott!

Ohh that's sounds so hot!! If you ever want to FMTY let me know

Over the years I've enjoyed three submissives.  Eden Apple in Atlanta who took a good whipping, fingering and NP until she came hard. Then I came all over her ass while looking at the welts she had.  In Boston I saw Fancy who we played really hard, spanked until very red and light whipping of her pussy and then she offered full service after we returned from the hot tub where the g string showed others her red ass.  In Austin Slave Guinever offered anal and allowed me to whip her prior and it was hot.  Found all three on Eros under BDSM, submissive but they are few and far between.  Had a mistress for 13 years that I regularly tied up to my Tetruss and whipped, caned, bit, hot waxed and teased and she loved it. Miss that a bunch.

Hi Chloe. I’ve been all over your website and I’d definitely love to see your submissive side. Reach out the next time you’re in DC.

I'd love to show it to you ;) I'll definitely be in DC soon. Can't wait for you to oil me up and treat me like the bad girl I am.

I’m actually a submissive who is based in DC if you’re ever in the mood

Hi Chloe. The picks you sent were lovely because YOU are lovely. Sadly for you though, you weren’t drenched in oil as directed. I’m going to have to teach you how to be a good submissive and follow instructions. You may apologize.

I'm sorry, I'll have to learn how to follow instructions. I really need a reminder! 😉

Here is my review.  I'd love to find somebody to replace her

Mimi is sleek and slim, with tiny AA-cup breasts: perfectly-formed little handfuls with tiny HARD nipples. She has a beautiful and expressive face. Lovely smile and mischievous eyes that suggest the bad girl hiding behind a very intelligent and worldly demeanor. Her long blond curly hair is untamed, as is Mimi.

But we have to talk about her body. And the best way to do that is to describe exactly what I did upon entering the room. I retrieved from my bag one of two "toys" I brought with me - over-the-door restraints. We used the "connecting" door to the room, and velcro cuffs were at exactly the right height. I strapped Mimi in and turned her around to admire her tush: round and toned, but soft and responsive to a few light taps that I started with. While she was in that position I slowly moved my hands from her arms, down her sides to her legs and further down to her feet. Can't rush this, now. Everything needs to build.

Then up the insides of her legs to her pussy, which was just starting to dampen. I added to the dampness with a few licks of both her pussy and her tiny delicate rosebud. A soft moan resulted. Then my hands went around her front to her breasts - the first time I touched them. Gently. Soft massage. But not the nipples. Those need to wait.

I spun her around and took in the view. Now Mimi has some tasteful tattoos, from her wild and crazy youth, but I like them - a lot. In spite of her sophisticated demeanor, the tattoos are a window to a girl who is, underneath, a submissive slut (and I use that word with respect and affection).

Mimi's frame is narrow, her skin is soft and a light dusting lies atop one of the prettiest pussies I've ever seen - with a hard little clit that I found relatively easy to arouse.

So with Mimi facing me, I got to work on those lovely little breasts. My opening technique is a two-handed "mash" with the heal of my palm under the breast and my fingers closing on the top. Push up slowly and squeeze, and then release by pinching the nipple between fingers and heal of hand. Start soft. Repeat a bit harder, squeezing harder with each application. Then start turning hands outward and end by twisting each nipple to the outside. Harder now, as the nipples stiffen. Keep going as she starts to pull against the restraints and her hips start to jut forward. Take her mouth. Deeply. Biting on lower lip. Drop right hand to wet pussy (with left hand twisting hard on nipple). Hook two fingers into pussy, with heal of hand on pubic bone. Squeeze G-spot. Pull hard enough to lift legs off floor.

Orgasm #1.

We were warmed up, so it was time for Round 2. I had brought a vintage clothing brush with real bristles (not nylon). Mimi is still restrained, and I turn her around so her sweet tush is facing me. I start with soft strokes of the brush, alternating between long strokes of the brush and my hand. Down her legs, outside, back, inside. Alternating brush and a wiping motion with the hand.. Be careful to watch the color, there is a bit of a delay as the blood rises to the surface. Some nice slaps, increasing in intensity, and we are done on the back.

Turn her around and Mimi is breathing heavily. But she's not ready yet. Start with light brushes (followed by hand) along the front of her legs, then the sides. But now we need to open her legs for "full access" and the brushing gets much more intimate. So my light brush, and my hand, in rhythm now (rhythm is important) are working left, then right, the across that light dusting atop the pubis. The moaning is louder now, but I need provide a little oral stimulation to the button to get Mimi higher on the sensation.

I stand and start the brush/hand rhythm on her belly, and then finally to her breasts. Brush by itself now - no "wipe" with the hand. By now her entire torso, her entire body, is glowing like a bad sunburn. Hot to the touch. I turn her around and make love to her rosebud with my tongue. Full tilt rimming and tongue fucking. Spin around and start dedicated cunnilingus with my hands up at her breasts. Take a bit of coordination to pull and twist her nipples while flicking her button, but I have a lot of practice. Shaking now. Tightening legs. Done!

Orgasm #2.

I release the restraints and lead Mimi to the bed. She is on her back with my uncovered cock in her mouth. I am kneeling beside her and mauling her breasts, but we need to ramp up the stimulation. I spread her legs and start lightly tapping her pussy with my right hand. Tap. Tap. Tap. SLAP! Repeat. This goes on for a bit, and once or twice I did three Taps and then nothing. She's waiting for the SLAP (which of course is MUCH harder then the taps). Anticipation is incredibly erotic. When she turns her hips to face me I SLAP harder then before. . Mimi says "You're really enjoying this!"

Working hard now. Sweating. Switch to slapping her breasts while she's sucking me. And holding her nipples while she rocks back and forth (she is pulling her nipples herself). But I must return to that little swollen pussy. And then I bend down and take her little button between my teeth. And through all this Mimi is licking and swallowing my cock, never letting it out of her mouth. We continue for awhile, slapping and sucking, and when she raises her hips high off the bed, we both cum.

Orgasm #3.

I bend my face to hers and lick the cum from her lips. We're done. I'll be back.

Sounds very sexy! I love being told what to do and being dominated but I'm way too sensitive for pussy slapping or nipple twisting or any rough nipple play. So I don't know if I'm your girl.

I believe I knew the wonderful MiMi in this post, I've known and met her over few years  
Definitely one of the most interesting ladies I've ever met and certainly the most multi-orgasmic with endless pain threshold.
She'll always be my most precious hobby memory

If I could find a sub provider that is into receiving impact play (HARD impact play), I would travel to her at least 1x a month, probably more if she was closer.

Will probably never happen though, so....

Go see Slave Guinevere in San Antonio TX.  She took a whipping like a champ and probably would have taken more.  She also does Greek and if i had more money and time I would have been more intense.
I think her website says if you want to mark her she requires notice and more roses.
Let me know how it works out.  She was a blast!

Awesome selection of subs and switches. Mostly NY area but other areas represented too. Have sessioned with several of the girls. ALWAYS a quality experience . Google for their website

SF bay area hobbyist here. A few have agreed to light BDSM after building trust with a couple 'vanilla' visits.  

I fondly will never forget the likes of Katrina or Surrendered who openly advertised submissive service.  Good times.

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I love pushing subs to their limit. nose pinching while BBBJ, slapping, fisting pulling hair is just nirvana.

I love playing submissive to the right people it’s fun to role-play. I am naturally dominant, but enjoy many sub activities. Pushing limits is very arousing.

I seem to be seeing more women open to submission. Typically it's not something they advertise but offer after they meet you and sense an interest.

For you east coast travelers, check out the Art of Submission. Mostly NY based talent. Ive never been disappointed.

Due to former life experiences, I'm no stranger to keeping control - but it can be positively liberating when somebody knows exactly what they're doing; whether that is through their words or touch, a spreader bar, or a length of rope amongst other things. *winks*

While I am open about my submissive offerings (re: light to heavy impact play, tease & denial, collared and tied, role-play, spanking, breath play, etc), I do prefer individuals go through screening first and then I provide them access to that particular part of my website.

check out these incredible submissive providers, gems each and every one
https://theartofsubmission.com

seen a couple of them, well worth to mention Magenta

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