I booked a Touring Provider 2 months in advance.
I have seen her long back once.
2 days before the date, I give her my wishlist and mention a particular act ( wanted to finger her ass).
She responds saying that she never offers that service and that I should rather take my business elsewhere where I can enjoy.
She does not mention if there is any other item in the wishlist that bothers her. Those other items are anyways nothing out of the ordinary.
Is it normal for Providers to take offence upon a request and cancel?
Am I wrong in thinking that she should have explained that she doesnt provide that service and given me a chance to respond rather than cancelling straight away?
When I tell her that it doesnt seem polite to cancel like this, she doesnt respond anymore.
This last minute cancellation on the slightest pretext is not that uncommon.
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-- Modified on 7/8/2016 9:36:27 PM
OPSEC? Radio Silent? Wow Ginger!! I LOVE it when you talk like that!
Maybe she felt you weren't compatible based on your wishlist and that you should see another.
Maybe she felt uneasy about you sending a wishlist with sexual details.
Maybe she felt it was peculiar that you booked two months in advance, yet sprung requests on her two days before.
Maybe she felt if those other items were nothing out of the ordinary, as you say, you could have checked her reviews, PM'd any reviewers and booked accordingly.
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The circumstances you describe will normally trigger the response you received.
If this happened to be a lady that you had seen recently or frequently the reaction might have been different.
What true lady doesn't like a strangers finger up her ass!???
lol
Time to move on.
Jeez, I thought it was just me ...
-- Modified on 7/9/2016 4:05:38 PM
Curious---did she ask for a "List of your wishes"-advertise about any "Special Requests"-or did you initiate the wish list on your own? And apparently some of the responders failed to notice that you had seen her before-albeit "Long back once" !
We noticed and found it could potentially not matter to the provider. A wishlist certainly implies the service would differ some from that other visit. And a vague familiarity doesn't necessarily make getting a wishlist sprung on you any more comfortable.
You saw her "long back once", which means she is an acquaintance who may or may not remember you.
She responded to you with what you present as an amicable brush off cancelation, after you mentioned specific acts.
It only takes one act to spoil the mood for a session/date, even if it's a perceived act.
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Hands clap vigorously for this response Ginger. A month or so back a gent scheduled with me then proceeds to bombard my phone with services requests. Knowing everyone doesn't always know, I tried in earnest to explain the concept and dangers, he continued to tell me how many review he has and what other ladies have done. In my mind I was like good for you and them, I'm guessing after the like 10th no response he got the picture.
I've also come to believe that anyone who not only requests such and is overly pushy is one to avoid at all costs.Someone sends me service requests before an appt. and I go radio silent, you will never hear from me again. There are discussions about this on the Newbie Board all the time. Sorry, this is a hobby no-no. The safe way to do things is to read the reviews, read the menu on the website and make your decision from there. I remember a gent who was really upset finding out it was the assistant on the other end...simple solution...you shouldn't be dirty talking with people you don't know. If you want that service, there are 900 #s for that.
BE about it, don't talk about it....OPSEC. Be safe, y'all! This is a very important time to stay safe. It has become very common, not just you honey.