About half of the well-known providers seem to have gone underground and shut their sites or opened under w/new urls.  Someone's "wife" is going whacko on the ladies on the boards.  No one is returning email or phone messages and the chat has gone silent.  Can someone please back channel me to let me know what's up?  I'm a frquent visitor from up north and even ladies I've seen before have "disappeared" or at least are "unresponsive."  What's happening, ladies and gents?