After a long lay off, I have renewed my membership to TER and am looking forward to picking up where I left off.  Although I am now 61, I look much younger and enjoy younger women, but have found it difficult to hook up with them.  I have sent messages to several individuals and even agencies on P411 as I joined that service in hopes it would help in showing I am not LE, but usually receive no replies.  How do I go about finding the ladies that enjoy us older dudes too?

I take it you are a "basic P411 member" IOW a member, but one with no "okays"

Assuming that is the case, my advice to you is to look for P 411 providers that state in their ad/profile that they are either "newbie friendly" or that they accept "basic members"  once you get a few okays under your belt you should be go to go.

I think it's the fact that you have no current references, and not your age that is the problem.

I think is 61 is prime to hobby and as you write a few reviews or posts
you will be known and welcomed by our Atlanta ladies.

See you can teach ole dogs new trick.... hang in there you will catch someone xoxoxo 50 & Flirty here xoxox     amsterdamheaven

HEP?

you just got an invite. jump on it. and my other two cents worth, don't try and contact anybody unless you are asking for an appointment. that may knock the brakes off a bit. good luck, dawg!

Thanks Freebore… that's why I'm a "Newby"!  Like child in a candy store

I second the above comment, it's likely screening that's your issue, not your age. I would seek a provider (moi happens to be one of them) who will accept employment verification (which p411 will do for you if you would rather keep that private). Once you are screened that way you can use her as a reference and everything should be coming up roses. Best of luck to you!

I am just growing older, not up

Altough, "UP" is a term that I feel I am somewhat of an expert on.... (said with my mid-thirty mature, yet sexy and playful voice...lol)

I started providing at 26 and I did not see anyone over 50. It was not going to be a good date for either of us if I was getting images of my freaking grandpa. Now, I will go to about 60 and that's a rap unless it is someone I know from the boards who just does it for me personality wise... that will always trump anything else that is superficial.

I understand your comment completely, hence the dilemma faced by us guys 55-65... Media and culture pounds into us all that 60 is the new 40, but is it really, or just in marketing and advertising circles?  Although I feel 30 and act that age, I am not.  My driver's license says I am, but people who know me are often shocked when I tell them my age.  I saw people at a class reunion several years ago who looked like they could be my uncles and aunts.  Those types won't be members here anyway, so it just makes it more difficult for those of us who are and want to enjoy all it has to offer like people 15 years younger.  Maybe we should get a "senior discount" on our membership on TER..... I certainly don't want to creep anyone out!

Age is just a number.

Not necessarily "rural" either....

I always give my age to new ladies so they have that opportunity.  I've had wonderful experiences with ladies from mid-20s up and never experienced any sense of a creepiness response.  I don't do the pickup/hookup scene, if that is what you were referring to, but understand how the creepiness factor can impact there.  However, have never encountered it in p4p.  Hang in there - mostly, they seem to enjoy us just fine.

...regarding age or anything else for that matter.

And I'll be in Atlanta next week ; )

but I am only a very few years younger than the OP.

And in regards to the OP, I have NEVER been turned down for being too old, not even by the "barely legal" providers.