but I have found it WELL worth the money.

One thing you might try with P411 if that is the site you joined is instead of sending PM that they may or may not respond to, try sending an appointment request. Per P411 rules, the ladies are required to respond to those requests either confirming or denying the request in a reasonable time, I don't remember exactly how long that time is, but it's no more than a few days.

What you may be running into is the ladies may be seeing no "okays" attached to your account, another thing you might try is contacting ladies that advertise as "newbie friendly" or "will see basic members" until you get your okays built up.

What is not allowed is mentioning by name any other review site as TER doesn't like us talking about the competition on "their" boards. lol

Been sporadically seeing my ATF for a while but wanted to try someone different. Since I don't voyage into new territory often enough, I've had almost no luck with seeing someone I haven't seen before. So I joined a verification site and left private messages but looks like the ladies I'm interested in aren't logging onto much.

Any pointers from someone other than the peanut gallery?

Harry

I sent a couple of of Pre-Screen request messages but the ladies I've posted haven't checked into p411 since I sent the messages late last week. Chalk that up to dumb luck, right?

Thanks for the advice about Newbie Friendly or Basic ladies. I may need to reconsider quite a bit until I re-establish my credit.  

Harr

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For me, going through the P411 verification process was a wise investment on my part.  I highly recommend it.

There is a new site that seems to be acquiring some momentum and it is actually advertised on the TER site.
Its called Lux Verify and from my short experience with the site it could become an industry standard.

That's what I do - send an introductory email with references directly to the lady.  I've never had an issue getting screened and cleared (especially now that I have great references)  I've never even considered joining P411.

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Let me add my voice to the mix. I don't see the "App" ever getting any traction, nor do I ever plan on using it.

I also think it was poorly conceived and I agree its a huge flop.

I would not recommend that Lux Verify app.

I don't think naming a site after a pimp would get a lot of ladies to sign up, especially in Atlanta.

to begin with? TER needs to stick with being a review site and not branch out. I am waiting for TER to come out with a brand of condom or lube.

Disclaimer to those who get offended with the word "hooker". I am not calling a specific lady a "hooker" I am using the word to describe the app.

I couldn't believe that POS could ever be behind anything worth a fuck

...to me, they say, "Hey, I think I might want to maybe sometime in the future, possibly see you...so would you mind taking the time out of your day to verify me? If and when I ever do approach you for a date, it will most definitely be last minute."

JK, but not.

xoxo
Caylee

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I guess that will teach me to keep my big mouth shut in the future.
Sorry to offend as it was not my intention at all. Only offered a suggestion to someone asking.