I'm still new to everything involving the hobby, but I've been curious about the meet and greet posts. I know you probably have to be around for a while to receive an invite. What exactly are they for, though? Is it less of a "meeting" space and more of a "hang out with people you already know and invited" type of thing?

It's basically an invite only party with providers and hobbyists...you get to know one another,  maybe exchange information...eat, drink..and just commiserate! It's really a fun time, too...You can see the providers in person, and we get to meet you too!  It's good for fella's who are interested in a lady to see her in person first...IF she comes....lol....  check it out!    

 
SK

But, there's a screening process. I'm not sure what it is for the gents.

I asked Sunny to invite me to her last M&G (the birthday one), and she did. I didn't know anyone except a couple of gentlemen that I had dates with before. It was great because I got to meet new gents and also the other ladies that I've spoken with on the phone and e-mailed for months. It was a lot of fun. It was in a restaurant/bar in the private banquet room. Good food, drinks, music and company. It reminded me of office parties I've been to, except with people I actually wanted to be around and with hotter women. lo

do you know if these are lgbt safe spaces? I'm fairly old so I don't think I would get mistaken for a provider, but this place (ter) has felt a little alienating as an older lesbian client. Are the meet and greets inclusive?

I'm not sure. I've only been to one M&G. I think a ton of the providers are bi though or at least heteroflexible. I can't imagine why it wouldn't be for clients since that is the case.

If I see you sitting alone, I'll come sit with ya and buy you a drink.

Sorry to hear that you felt alienated on TER.  While this is a Made dominated board, I am sure most of us welcome any and all hobbyists, and are supportive of all choices.  If we both make it to the M&G I'll buy you the second drink after Stina  

And please do stay on the board and participate with us.

E-mail pw and give him your info. And like Stina said it's a very friendly atmosphere for all.

but lesbians are usually rather well received, as opposed to gay guys who rarely if ever receive anything but ridicule and a cold shoulder here, but of course this site was created for people to chase pussy, not dick, so the double standard is not unexpected.

I agree that I hope she stays, If I see anyone giving her a hard time for being a lesbian i will be more than happy to "punch them in the throat" for her. lol I think many of us here are lesbians, we are just trapped in a man's body. lol

I personally love older gentlemen. I also love beautiful ladies!

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