I was just chatting with someone who (when the topic of toys came up) said that she thought many guys were intimidated by a lady bringing toys into the bedroom.  Being fascinated by this statement (and all things sexual) I wanted to ask...

Ladies - do you enjoy toys in the bedroom?  If so, do you have them in open view (on the nightstand)?  Or do you keep them hidden until a gent asks about them?

Guys - would toys on a lady's nightstand intimidate you or make you curious?  Is it a good conversation starter or a turn-off?

 
PS:  Happy Friday!

There's one local lady that travels with a gun case full of them. Now that's a serious toy collection!

Toys are fun.  And they offer a variety of options...ladies, put them on display (And several sexy ladies do) and those who don't like them won't inquire, but you may be surprised about what a conversation starter they may be.

I like to keep mine right on the night stand just to let guys know that is an option.

I've also heard & think some guys are intimidated by toys but I figure when they see them on the night stand,  they'll either choose to use them or won't.

Unless I know the guy loves to play with toys. Then I'll grab one or ask him to.

I love toys.

-Anin

Toys, like a third person, can just be a distraction from a good time between two people.  If toys are going to be introduced into the experience, make sure both people agree/desire them and make sure they are value added to the fun.

Hope you are well E.

Peace!!

Tony

Or at least a bullet.
A silver, vibrating one anyway.

LOL

I'm with you Larry.

I love watching a woman get off.  And if there is something we can use to make that happen quicker, more often, or make it more intense - I'm all for it.  So I've always liked the idea of a lady bringing toys to bed.

In fact one of the things I really like to do is watch a woman use them on herself first.  It's hot and it's fun.  And it's very educational seeing how she gets herself off.  Learning how a woman likes to cum can come in handy.  
 

Yes, Miss Love I do know that.  But thank you for reminding me.
Playing with you and your toys is a deeply spiritual experience.  

Maybe some guys think that if women have great orgasms with toys then they won't need real cocks (or tongues or fingers) anymore?  Which is pretty silly, but some (ok many) of us guys have fragile egos.

Hey my cock doesn't even need batteries.  He does occasionally need to be recharged with a little nap.  But all in all he's a pretty cool and versatile little tool.  And by little I mean enormous.  LOL

Hi Tony,

You are ever the philosopher and gentleman.
I totally agree.  Toys have a time and a place.  And I don't need or want to use them every time.
And if the raw intensity is already there, toys may even distract a bit from the goings on.

Make sure the toy use is consensual and like you put so well that it will be "value added".

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With you as a teacher, I'd love to put "toy school" on my bucket list.

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Pushing my imagination to the next limit...
Now you are speaking my language!
A dirty mind is a terrible thing to waste.  

I like a women who is versatile, uses her creativity, and keeps all her options open.  Well done.

If I see the magnum dildo that's 15" long and 4" in diameter, I might feel inadequate. But, otherwise, game on!!

You have a point.  Also it might be a good question to ask where she is planning to put it.  LOL

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"An expert is someone who has succeeded in making decisions and judgements simpler through knowing what to pay attention to and what to ignore."

Thanks for the compliment 😘

Thanks guys I do LOVE my toy collection and always adding new ones  
Hugs and kisses
TL

Great answer Kerri.  It sounds like you have many things to play with.
Uh...  I mean like your chest.
Um... I mean your pleasure chest.
Well, uh... I mean your chest guys use to get pleasure from.
I mean...
Oh, forget it...  *blush*

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Lol, I thought of you and that big ass thing on the night stand you have as soon as I read this.  
Xoxo

SQUIRTTTTTTT !!!!!!!!

Lol!! Well I actually have title's for my toys I have one called the husband,  one called the boyfriend,  one called their buddy..... The one you refer to is what I call "The whole gang" lmao!!!
Love
TL