I can understand and agree about the need to be verified. We hobbyist tend to do it by using reviews, etc. But recently I had a problem being verified. Most of us do not want our names recorded so how do we get "remembered" by a provider especially if we use different providers? Is it proper etiquette to ask a provider if you can use them as a reference?
Most of us try to use other providers for references; it is easier when we know a provider willing to give a reference, and we don't need as much info. I remember clients by name about 90% of the time...That is just me. And I never keep any information, unless it a friend wants me to keep it. The problem lies when certain providers don't like to return calls for refs for another provider. Either lack of class or civility or greed; whatever, that happens also. I urge ladies to call me. Hell, If I can't see someone, I'll refer him to someone I have spoken with regarding a reference, or a provider I know; and hope they extend the same courtesy...But by all means, ask...My .02
SexySofia
I agree with you .. I always give my guys references.. and in the times when i couldnt remember the guy they called me and reminded me lol...
I always tell my clients that have just started in the hobyy or ones who don't do it that offen to use me as a reference that way they don't have to go through the indepth screening that some of these ladies have...Sometimes its like filling out a application for a loan, shit they only want to f*ck u for an hr not buy you!!...LOL Just my 02
T
LMAO! You are too funny!
You kill me sometimes T! Some girls will give a guy a nickname, in my case very easy, or some kind of password or code so they remember them or at least know they're legit when they come back for a visit.