What are some type of things needed in order to have a solid provider and hobbyist relationship?

Basics.  Trust,  honesty to some degree.  Feeling comfortable.  IF/when the sex is great that is such a plus and huge turn on.  Knowing each others bodies.  Being giving.  Being courteous.  Respectful of each others time and boundaries.  

When I say honesty to some degree, I mean we shouldn't have to divulge things that we feel are too personal.  I don't expect my gent to give me his life story and he shouldn't expect that from me.  

A common ground. Intellectual and stimulating conversation.  Chemistry.  You know when you click with someone, and that is such a great plus!  

Repeat sessions always build relationships!

Hobby on!  

K

I guess I have a dirty mind because the first thing that came to mind was....well you know lol

It's a 2 way street.  Respect each others health,  happiness,  mental and sexual stimulation and respect each other's boundaries!  I believe these are what make great provider/hobbyist relationships
XOXO,  
TL

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Provider/client relationship.  

..I think I'm too new to have more than one, but the one I think of...
My explanation of it is:
He and I simply cannot wait to see each other, and chat beforehand (in any form)
We can see it in each other's eyes when we finally meet.
When we embrace, it's full of chemistry... Lotsa hormones rushing through our bodies
We have a high-level of trust when we're alone
It's difficult to say goodby

Both should always remember why they are here. There are two types of trust: business and personal. It is easy to assume sometimes they are related, but aren't. In fact, when the boundary crossed, there is no way back.

I appreciate your response to the topic. Honesty is an important element to a good provider and hobbyist relationship.

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Respect one another goes a long way to establish a strong bond. Thanks TL for your response.

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That is a good relationship you have with your clients.

That is a great point Nicoleta. I appreciate your reply.

It may very well be the best I've ever seen. The rest of her ain't bad either.

Show up on time, leave on time, pay the full fee requested.  

My relationships (purely physical ones) don't last longer than the appointment time, so I find that this seems to work great; I've never had a weird situation.  It also helps if during the date you ask before you do anything that isn't plain vanilla.  I've never had a request, no matter how not vanilla it is turned down - I attribute this to two things. One, I do my home work; I usually know her boundaries before we start. Two, if you bother to ask, it lets her know you care about her boundaries and respect her, so it becomes her choice; once she has the power to say no, she more likely to say yes (if you've done your home work in advance).  This is how you keep the mileage consistent.  The only other soft skill is to not act like a creep or needy person; this is best achieved by smiling a lot (but if you're not a person that smiles much, don't force it - cause then you'll look like a creepy person).

You're so FUNNY!!!  Thank you, my love!  
Big, huge KISS!

Great conversation, thank you bigjoe2002

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No problem, good topic.

Well, I bet that it's fantastic looking.

I agree with you Johnny. It's best to ask because don't want to be a person who is pushy.

That is a good point. Thanks for your response

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