I'm relatively new to this but have been hitting a stumbling block with the agencies cause I don't have any references. Any suggestions on what I can do to fix that?

I'm looking for quality women, so backpage is out of the question. Anyone here Newbie friendly on the screening/alternate methods (not too comfortable with using my work information)?

...get personal info such as work number.

There are quality ladies on BP they're just harder to find.  

Check the TER Atlanta ad board some note they are newbie friendly.

Consider P411. They will work with you and figure out a way to get you verified. Call their 800 number don't just look at their site.

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assuming you are legit Gina will take care of you.

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These are good sources for screening. However, I must warn you that even having these that some providers might need extra information for screening or use their screening additionally with P411 and datecheck so you have to give it out either way.

there is P411 and Datecheck. I forgot about them maybe because I have never used them. I think  they require some private information too. So I prefer to give my private information to a lady rather than posting it on the web. Good luck!

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I'm not a newbie; have excellent Agency and Indy refs...

... but for some reason, there are one or two handlers that seem to have arbitrarily frozen me out...  

Understanding this is a free enterprise zone with respect to whom one sees, and that too much persistence would make anyone feel uneasy, I am left wondering what I did or said.

I know I'm far from perfect (++ !! ) ...   and really not going to spend too much time sweating out a "no"  or ignored (maybe blocked?) call, text, or email...    

Still, l would like to at least know if I inadvertantly pushed the wrong button.  For no other reason than to avoid doing so again!

(Thanks for letting me "vent")

BTW... I guess I'm also looking for suggestions!

 

 
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Here is an idea that you can do based upon you mentioned that you are not a newbie is attend an M&G. It's a way that you can introduce yourself to providers and also the providers can see the type of person that you are. Now you will still have to be screen; however, the benefits are great for you.

So you get feedback for your vent otherwise you are usurping the op.

hi, we are newbie friendly. But, if you don't have references we do require work info. Keep in mind everyone has to screen you somehow.  You gotta give a little to get something in return in this biz. Xoxo

but they sure are my thing, lol

You sound like a great way for him to start out.

I signed up for the LuxVerify service (promoted on TER).

Scam or will it be accepted by providers