I have been trying to see a well reviewed provider but it has been frustrating. She has the most extensive process to get verified that I have ever been thru. I understand this and don't have a problem with it but when I was trying to get verified it took her assistant a long time to get back with me to let me know if I had been verified or not. Our first meeting was gone before the assistant let me know that she I had not been verified. Luckily I didn't wait around and made another appointment with someone else.

Sdd like a hassle but Gotta know when to walk; the time you've wasted you ain't getting back

...This may not quite qualify for what I'm about to say but it's so close I'll say it anyway.

The bad thing about that is providers don't like to have their time wasted. I can understand that. If you start booking with several at once that means you will need to cancel with some of them and they won't like that at all. IMHO, it is best to have a time in mind when to pull the trigger and call someone else. If the original provider does happen to get back to you at the last minute then it is their own fault. But that is my humble opinion.

the provider with a alter ego!!!!  Shhhhh  that type of provider usually is lousy at time management but fucks up a storm.  This is what I suspect here.  lol

Amen!
And Miss B IS an awesome lady!!!  
Who does Mary Poppins screen for?

Posted By: GingerTaylor1234

just duck out and avoid the so-called "DRAMA"...LOL. But, in catch-22 type issues, no one is perfect, but, I TRY to imploy The Golden Rule. If the shoe was on the other foot...if YOU were a lady, had a screener, whom you paid, but, was screwing up appts. for YOU with clients who really wanted to meet you...would you want someone to nicely and discreetly tell you? Personally, I would. I don't have that issue cuz my screener is like Mary Poppins...practically perfect in every way, but, just posing the question here. One thing that is sad to me in this ever changing "plugged in" world, people often don't take the time to help someone out. Everyone is in such a rush to avoid drama and I totally understand why. But, by avoiding drama, you avoid PEOPLE. LOL. With people, comes problems and drama. It's inevitable. It's what you do NEXT that counts. Just food for thought. Maybe if the screener just gets the message, she can improve her response time in some manner?

Big fucking deal.  

it goes both ways.....many ladies double book to guarantee they're gonna get an appointment (and income) from someone.

Amen to that xyz !!!

There is no cure for stupid......

...it will get one of them pissed at you and word would get around. Not what you want.

I was not suggesting "double booking."   I was just suggesting that he initiate conversation + Then, go with the provider who responds fastest.   To me, "booking is complete," when I have the client's date and time and identifying details.  We have agreed on a date and time to met.  That is when "the deal is sealed" with me.  However, if the client is just initiating contact and asking general questions, I don't take that as a "real appointment" on the books !!!

A perfect provider? She screens for you???
I will never forget either... "No, I just act like it." LOL
Thank you for the compliment! MUAH back at ya!
 

...please explain exactly what you meant if not that.

and you want advise on approaching a person known only to you.  

Ter ad.  http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=27669&boardID=67&page=2#27669

And it's thorns will prick just the same.

Our little Fungus seems to always be in a bad mood. I guess he wakes up, looks in the mirror and realizes that today, just like every other day for him, is going to be a bad one. No wonder he is always in a foul mood.

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Take me for example, even some of the most sensitive posters here (not all of course) give me a pass on my "assholishness" because I at least make them laugh while they are getting mad at me.

Fungus is simply "rude and hateful" as you so artfully put it, with no redeeming qualities, well none that I can see at least.

Isn't this supposed to be fun? I honestly don't think that he is having any fun here, do you?

I've been told I have a way of growing on people

of course so does AF, except in his case, he grows on you like a fungus, which is not really such a good thing. lol

One reason I tend to use agencies, is contact is easier and you usually have a few options if choice 1 is not available.

that her name was mentioned on the TER forum.  There's a great provider who's just terrible at communication. Awful. If I need to get an answer to question such as "are we meeting tomorrow", and she's not responding, I'll just send her a text telling her that her name was mentioned. She'll get back to me in under 60 seconds.

Nothing has context. It is butterfly flapping its wings in Bali.

I see you have met our village idiot.

Pay no attention to Fungus, he is in a perpetual bad mood, and has been for years.

As for your OP, I have limits on how many hoops I will jump through to get laid, no matter how hot or how fantastic the lady is in bed. Everyone's limits are different, but it sounds like you are reaching yours. It could be the providers fault and the "booker" is only following her bosses instructions, or it could just be a very inefficient booker and the lady herself might not even know that her booker is causing issues for her.

I would suggest that if there is a way to get a message directly to the lady in question without having it go through the booker, you might bring this to her attention, for her own good if nothing else, but I will concede that might not even be possible, in which case my only advice would be to move on to a woman that you can actually schedule with.

You make me look downright nice in comparison to you. lol

Now come on and give us another example of your rapier like wit.