Unfair of your client to make your date miserable if it's cold. For me, I like the natural, beautiful look. If it's cold outside there are plenty beautiful outfits that are good looking and feminine style. Blend in is also important. If it's cold and you show up in a mini skirt and crop top it will for sure stand out. I like to feel like I am with a woman I can connect with and have an hour or two away from reality with someone that could be my partner in an alternate universe 
Of course, I know it's only within the time we spend together but the experience is everything.
Well said... I'm happy to do outfit requests but once there I can change into what's been requested. I agree with Caitlin about discretion. Hey, I'd love to show up butt naked 🤣 but in reality we all need to be discrete 😘
Why would you say that? Clients pay for the fantasy of it all, this is his. The provider can always decline.
I totally get it...the client is entitled to his fantasy.
But, also please keep in mind. as ladies we get TONS of people writing that are what my Assistant Miss Betty calls "Fantasy Bookers". So, in Caitlin's case, for example...it is probably more than likely this gentleman was writing about his fantasy, taking her time and in reality never had any intention to spend a single dollar with her..."Fantasy Bookers" are not legitimate clients or friends.
Someone asking for an outrageous outfit request will often go into the "Fantasy Booker" column quickly. It's just something to consider from the female perspective.
MUAH, GT
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Well Ginger, he contacted me through P411 and I had to turn him down due to my monthly visitor. He was adamant about seeing me and was fine with a topless massage. He has every intention of seeing me. I still made my rate as well.
Thanks for the input though!
Smooches
Well, then great! It couldn't have turned out better! I'm glad he was legit.
MUAH, GT
I feel like outfit request should be reasonable..... like you could dress normal for your date but once in the room change into the requested look...
I'm not going to do something that draws attention or makes me uncomfortable. I'm not saying that request are a no and I will try to accommodate as much as possible but I'm also mindful to the public eye.....I know a lot of ladies that ask for extra for outfit request and I don't typically but I do think it's fair and have considered adding it to my disclaimer only because I'm possibly being asked to dress in a way I'm not comfortable, I have to dig for a certain outfit which can be stressful or I have to buy something new in order to accommodate said request...
I love dressing up and I love accommodating certain request but sometimes it can be a bit stressful and we need the least amount of stress for our dates so we can give the best experience possible.
When I request outcall, I usually ask my friend to arrive dressed as comfortably as possible. That leaves it on her because comfortable can mean a lot of things. The point is discretion for both of us. I also ask for garters and stockings behind closed doors but it’s never happened; one or the other have happened many times but never both. Not yet, anyway 
Which was all wrong for him to do. And kind of a weirdo thing for him to do at that. The correct approach is, let your date choose their own outfit, they know what guys like. If you have something to request behind closed doors, that's one thing. But publicly..... naaa.
I bet this guy wears white after labor day!🤣🤣
There are more fantasies out there than any of us can count. I don't mind someone asking for a specific look however, I appreciate respect when I decline. I'm of the mindset that time with a gentleman should be enjoyable for the both of us. It's not a good experience when the other person isn't into the same thing. Dressing skimpy when its cold out will take away from my experience because I would be freezing and uncomfortable. I think it's not exactly discreet either. I would not enjoy that and I'm not one to fake it.
I believe there are always alternatives. We can do something like that in the summer where less clothes is less likely to attract the wrong attention. I've made plans with regulars for times when it was better to act out their fantasy. The anticipation leading up to the meeting is pretty awesome too.
I'm always happy to bring an outfit and change after I arrive. This keeps the wrong attention off me and our location.
I've role played at his place or mine in certain outfits, this allowed for privacy and naughty clothes.
If a gentleman requests something I simply don't offer, I will recommend a provider that does, if I know one. He appreciates it and so does the lady I'm sending him too. I make nothing material out of it however, I help 2 people get what their looking for and that's pretty darn good for the Karma!
I don't judge anyone or their fantasy, to each their own. As long as no one is getting hurt and everything is consensual and of age, I'm good. That does not mean I cater to them all. I cater to what I enjoy, that's what I do best
XOXO
Becca Blossoms
I cater to fantasy & fetish fun, so I get special requests all the time. If the guy pays in full no problem. 😉 I don’t mind being uncomfortable for a short amount of time. I generally love to be cool & casual attire when meeting in public for the first time. I am always happy to model anything behind closed doors after we meet. Many clients/friends will send me money for special lingerie, outfit, hair, nails special requests. I’m here to make their dream date a reality.
