This past year, I've found that I really prefer to communicate and schedule with a provider via email or text as opposed to phone. I've always found it awkward to cold call a provider and have to rattle off my references or discuss scheduling details.
As a result, I've found myself not wanting to reach out to providers who are "phone only" especially if it's my first time making contact. I however have no problem making a phone call to a provider after I've already been screened if that's what she requires to feel more comfortable about seeing me. I know some ladies want to hear a potential clients voice... Guys, do you have a preference? Do you find it easier to reach out to a provider initially via email or text. Are any of you like myself and shy away from phone-only providers? Ladies, do you have a preference? Are many of you comfortable just seeing a potential client based only on email or text exchanges (in addition to proper screening of course) or do you prefer a gent to cold call you for an appointment?...arrive at her location. (Text works for this just as well.)
Emails can get lost in spam or junk so if I haven't replied after a few hours, a phone call is just fine with me.
I do like to speak with someone before I meet them so I generally won't confirm a date/time until we chat unless I've met them before at at M&G. And obviously, if I've spent time with them previously, a text or email schedule again works for me.
and using my contact form....gives me all the information I need at that moment. Playing email tag is not fun and time consuming. Although giving me all my screening info in the email will be just fine. Texting is ok....but not preferred. Phone calls....those are tough.....have to grab a pen and pad and write things down....I used to do that a lot in the past....BUT, my number is listed, so I expect calls and texts. IF she is email only she will not give out her number. Which in my experience has limited me in the past with appointments. Some guys just do NOT like a possible paper trail. Good question!
K
Some ladies apparently like to have that connection as part of their screening process. OK with me - but, honestly, email is much easier to deal with.
Just so long as we connect 
Hey, I'm easy! Lol
Hugs and kisses
TL
I will go with her preferences.
Otherwise, I would prefer an email for the very first contact, then a pm to say " Baby, I am here!" But for the subsequents contacts, depending on how well went the first meeting, It could be the same as above or even better an email first, for the rendez-vous, then a call, just when on my way, to start the fire, you know what I mean, hehe!!!Wife, from the office, and ask: What do think Baby? Kiddo is not in the house tonight. Is this going to be in the living room, in the kitchen, or the outdoor? Hehehe so fun?
Otherwise, I would prefer an email for the very first contact, then a pm to say " Baby, I am here!"
But for the subsequents contacts, depending on how well went the first meeting, It could be the same as above or even better an email first, for the rendez-vous, then a call, just when on my way, to start the fire, you know what I mean, hehe!!!
Not the least of these being that I'm just not a big phone chatter. I'm much more of an up-close-and-personal type of gal.
Aside from this, I agree with Khori. For screening purposes, initial contact via email is simply easier. I'm not usually walking around with a pen and notepad handy, and also am not always in a position to take a call. It's much easier when screening information is forwarded to my inbox, so I can take it from there. I'm sure most ladies use their PC for screening - researching references, emailing requests, etc., and I feel like an email just saves a few steps. Texting is fine for previous friends or that "hey, I'm here!" message. Written communication has always been easier for me. Much easier to shoot back an email or text, especially if I'm out in public.pain, the mind must leave reality behind". Khori, we are all the same!
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