I have a question because I have been reading about NCNS and Double booking and etc, and It brought this thought in my head. I know scary hahahaha lol. Have there been a time that you (the provider) blacklist someone? Lets say that you (provider) blacklist a client, if the client want to correct whatever that he or she done wrong, would you (provider) allow them to do it? If Yes, what are things that you would allow them to do? If no, Why
What do you consider a reasonable time frame before you put him on the blacklist for a NSNC?
Shhhhhhhhhhh.............you may give some ladies some thoughts. They never ever NCNS or double book and use lame excuses. And how do you go about confirming their 'story?' Do you ever tire coming across as the all knowing Oracle? It wears lots of guys out. Trust me. I know. LOL.
Honestly, unless I am in a hospital bed or dead and not able to call, text, or e-mail you, the first thing I will do is contact you in some manner to let you know why I cannot be there and I expect the same in return.
If I blacklisted a NCNS and he contacted me 48 hours or a week later and I was able to confirm his reason, I would gladly update that blacklist to reflect that he had a valid reason for not showing.
HOWEVER, I have had a few people use the wife's heart attack, bosses heart attack, and father's illness that all proved to be complete bullshit. It's amazing to me how some people will use the most endearing people as their excuse for NCNS'ing or double booking. Complete sociopaths without any conscience...
I like your response and I think that is a very fair practice along with your willingness to work with him on modifying his BL in those real circumstances (which I guess that would depend on his willingness to provide you with what is required) and if not just suck it up and pay the cancelation fee. There is always options to update his listing to say "due to a verified accident" or " client was not comfortable with giving information but was willing to pay 100% cancelation fee" or whatever.
I agree I would never out a lady that stated it was due to medical or passing. I would hope she would not wish this on no one. That is the reason I give 2-4 days with just a couple of quick email/text over that time frame. Because if it really is the ladies child that is sick the last things she is/should be worried about is a client. I mean I would still out her if it was longer than that but things can always be cleared up and also allow patterns to be detected
This is a fucking business, and we are paying these women every bit as much money as we pay our doctors or our lawyers, I give respect where it comes to wasting the time of others and I damn sure expect it in return.
I agree with JLS, If I woke up in a hospital bed somewhere after getting in an accident and missing an appointment the VERY FIRST call I would make would be to the people that I inadvertently had stood up. I expect the same consideration in return.
I also think the guys that post these rants about NCNS without naming names are a bunch of ball-less pussies who are just exacerbating the problem as the women that they are too scared to out are reading these posts knowing that they aren't being called on their bad behavior, Come on guys man up or quit your fucking bitching.