Here lately, to be able to perform with my SO, I have to close my eyes and imagine that she is one of the lovely providers that I've seen in Atlanta or one that I hope to see. It's the only way I can maintain an erection and enjoy it at all.

Just wondering if that's usual, weird or what ?

She may be imagining other dudes too

I appreciate your reply. Now if someone can explain what the hell it means, I'd appreciate it. I am honored that you care enough to go back and search my other posts.

You may want to consider getting a life. Have a good day.

I wouldn't dwell on it -- just don't call out your ATF providers name at the wrong time!

I've caught myself in the short strokes wanting to say OH YESSESSS _____________ ( fill in the blank ). Most recently it was TerriLynn. In the last few months, in my mind it's been Morgan Marie, Melina, Gemma DeRossi, Natalie Milan, Taylor and the return of Alyssa Anderson got her into my fantasy world. The mind can be a wonderful thing at times.

Lovers never let you down. ARS Atlanta Rhythm Section. Sorry wonderful flashback.

The premise was that everyone fantasizes about Celebs of some sort during sex. But do the Celebs fantasize about you when they're having sex?

So Hoffer, while you and your SO are fantasizing about Bradgelina, are they fantasizing about you two while they're sexing?

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ordinary wifey type women.
You can never go back.

Try asking your SO to try one (or a few) of the things your favorite providers do.  Whether it be a specific outfit choice, a naughty trick, a new position, just ask.  She might be game and it might give you a little fire back.  Just say you saw it in a porn.  Surely she allows you to watch porn.  

I don't know what kind of life that would be, to not be allowed to watch porn.

of you.  lol  high bar set.

You should communicate with you SO.  U dont have to tell her your hobby but tell her your desires. she cant change what she doesnt know.

Thanks baby! We did have a blast!  
ARS rocks too!!
Hugs and kisses
TL

Oh my! So flattered that you fantasize about me  
Hope the SO's name is Terri lol be careful baby!
Hugs and kisses
TL