As I near 60 and think back  on my last few years in the hobby I realize that  I connect better and perform better with the mature providers near my age. When I've tried the hard body 20 something year olds, my "equipment " usually doesn't cooperate. As much as I'd love to try to bang their eyes out, just doesn't happen.
Not sure if it's intimidation or what.

Thoughts ?

Well, I don't have that problem, as I love women of all ages.   I"m near 60 and I do find I am more attracted to ebony providers as I find the passion and erotic sensations seem to make me more excited.  I'm not from Atlanta as your city has the most gorgeous ebony providers I've ever seen.  The one thing I can never figure out is why so many times there is such a difference in donations with lovley black ladies (lesser) than other providers.  I have nothing against white or asian providers as they are all wonderful also

I also have certain limitations due to certain meds, and make this known ahead of time, either when making the appointment, or at the beginning of the session. I haven't had any issues so far.

Of course I am not sixty yet, but I am closer to sixty than I am to fifty.

but my personal tastes aside, does it really matter as long as you can still find women that make you happy BCD?

Maybe it's the fact that I am VERY VERY immature that still connects me with the youngsters? lol

I will say, I can't possibly imagine being intimidated by any woman sexually, especially in P4P. Those thoughts NEVER enter my mind, nor should they enter yours. You are paying her for sex, not proposing marriage. It's like being intimidated by a waiter just because you don't know what wine to order, at the end of the day YOU are still the customer, not her.

theoretically, like P4P etc. so no issues. I wish it were true for me.

Beyond P4P, for me the beauty and the manner of the lady matters the most. I think it is the chemistry. I wont call it an intimidation, just a new person, strangeness .. no time yet to form the chemistry etc. .. and I do forget I am paying for it ... many first visits (not all) have not worked for me. But the first visit tells me which will work next and all most all of these worked really well the second and onwards.

I am 55 and one thing I experienced: dont try hard (no pun intended) .. it never works (for me). With the right lady it will work .. I remember once someone wrote on this board as his definition of beauty ... 'someone that gets me hard in no time' or something like that. Its kinda true for me.

Remember, meds help you sustain one but not to get one!!!

If I am forced to choose an age group, I probably say a true mid-30's late -30's connect the best. Simply because the conversation and other life experiences.  

 

It has more to do with personality than age. A good hostess can make a man of any age feel at ease.  
Might simply be a case of choosing the wrong hostess for your private party.

Research more thoroughly. That's my advice.

ga_kosh

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I'm in my mid-50's and as a general rule I lean toward the 40 something's to be more reliable to be a good experience.  That being said, my ATF is 29 but my other experiences with 20 something is about 50/50.

You connect better and perform better with women who are more mature/nearer your own age. Just go with what works and makes you happy. No need to feel like you "must" bone 20-somethings; you need impress no one.

....she's supposed to be there for your pleasure after all.
When you stop mind-fucking yourself, relax and not actually worry about that hard-on to "bang" someone out you'll find you'll have no problem getting one regardless of how young and hot she is.

I am finding that ladies above say 25yo just seem more responsive and engaging to a fat, balding old coot like me.    I still enjoy the young room rockets, where sex is all energy, but more and more I am scheduling with the plus 28 yo providers.

I can still find the tight body, beautiful spinner types I like, so all is cool.  I like that they have often discovered thier sensuality, beyond just thier sex.  They seem to pace better to my current abilities.  

Still, variety is what keeps you young, so every now and then, light up a room rocket, just because you can, lol

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I've hit 60, still enjoy the hobby a lot, and found a couple of adjustments that seem to help me.  Everything about me is just slower now -- physically and emotionally.  But I've also found that actually has it's own advantages in this hobby.  I schedule longer sessions (though the increase in cost does cut into the frequency) and I also try to schedule with the 30+ year-olds.  Let's just hope the ladies will stay with us as they mature themselves!

Holy crap what a bunch of hooey. Never admit to anything! Be a stud and if you can't, lie about it. Sheesh.

baaaaahaahaaahaaa lol

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I've been at this "game" a lot longer then I would ever admit, but I can honestly say that the top experiences that I've had hobbying, and in my personal life, have all been with women over 35. I hardly even glance at the ads for really young girls any more and prefer to spend my money on ladies who are at their sexual "peaks," as the research shows. My ATF was 39 or 40 when we first hooked up and it was the best sex of my life...addictingly so. Nothing hotter than a mature MILF or GILF that knows what she likes and how she pleases a man.

I prefer mid 20's to mid 30's but doesn't mean I can't connect outside my zone.  
It really depends on what else the little lady brings to the table errr bed as it were lol.  

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The best stuff I've learned I've learned from providers older than me, but at the end of the day, all else being equal, I've found the equipment and the nut are more reliable with the younger, tighter girls.  The equipment has failed me on more than one occasion, but once you take a pill that issue is fixed!  

I certainly have a poor self body image, and that's because I'm fat.  The fitter, younger girls used to be 50/50 for the equipment, and I was maybe 60/40 with the older ones.  I attribute that to the big head interfering with the little head.  But, after the meds, again, now its 100 percent to  play and 90% to nut. But, in neither event was I shy about getting naked in front of them, which is odd, because I wouldn't even take may shit off at the beach . . . I think the fact that I'm paying and they probably see worse, lets me consider them to be more like doctors in that regard

I love 'em all!  It feels comfortable and nice to share time with a woman my age.  Since I've worked a life time to become a dirty old man, it is also fun to role play with cute young providers who let the inner pervert emerge.  Can you believe this hobby?  What fun and joy!