Miss Fox, you ask interesting questions.
Shame on you.
Before I meet your questions with more questions let me just clarify what I meant. By diversity I mean that I can pick pretty much any size, shape, and color lady I'm interested in. Which of course includes ethnicity, body type, and stature, etc. Now I admit that if you have a taste for a 6'2" Amazonian bodybuilder musclegirl for your upcoming Wonder Woman role play they might be in short supply. But generally speaking there is a LOT of variety to be had in this city.
To your point about many gents looking for a particular aesthetic, I'm not exactly sure how to answer that. I can answer only for myself but how well you can extrapolate that to other gents is doubtful.
Aesthetic... hmmmm. I think this ties in well with your other question of do we gents have a "type"?
Yes. I do. My type is fun.
Oh, I suppose you want a definition of "fun" now... ok.
Fun to me equates to a woman with a good sense of humor, a quick and creative mind, a sense of adventure, someone likely to surprise me in bed, and a willingness to be "in the moment."
That's fun. Well for me anyway.
So, on to aesthetic. Assuming a woman is fun (I covered that part already) I like a pretty smile, sexy feet and mischievous eyes. Oh and a killer booty. Yeah that.
Breasts are nice too. Not that I don't love them - I do, but I'm a butt man. And enhancements are fine, I just like breasts to be in proportion to the woman's body type.
Ethicity, height, weight, piercings, tats and all that other stuff is negotiable. Experiencing all the different flavors of the rainbow is a definite perk for me in this hobby. You only have to peruse my review history to see I like a fair amount of variety in my diet.
So you tell me, do I have a certain aesthetic I fetishize? No idea.
What's my definition of an HDH? Ah, I sense a trap here. And I'm going to try hard not to trigger it. I blow myself up enough as it is without help from outside forces. Lol.
I won't give you an actual number but my definition of an HDH is a lady that asks more than double the going rate. That's just my opinion - take it for what it's worth.
And for what it's worth I wasn't disparaging high dollar ladies, any woman is of course free to charge what she wants. I was just pointing out that HDH's and long relationships tend to be mutually exclusive. For me.
A sample of just one.
Me.
One insignificant tiny little data point.
So before the HDH's bring their dream team of HDA's (High Dollar Attorneys) down on my ass be aware that I liberally scattered disclaimers all through this bitch.
:-p