It's been a long winter snow bound in the cabin.  I have to choose.  I'm torn between Favs...
#1...   better personal connection...   an hour of play time & play house & OTC lunch  
#2...   better sex...   soapy shower and hour of play time...  

Personal connection vs better sex???  
HV  

If that's a "box" lunch I'd go with number 1.  Otherwise I'd let number 2 "shower" me with her better talents.

Because for me, a personal connection usually means better sex!  But given the long snow bound winter, I think I would go for #2 and the soapy shower and better sex.  Then maybe have lunch with #1, lol.  Best of luck in your decision and the result.

just include the "soapy shower" in the "play house" time..you have it all covered..lunch is a bonus..

If this isn't possible, then I'd pick #2.

I also go for the personal connection.  That for me is the key in my ability to really rise to the occasion. Enjoy!

Better Sex isn't that why your here?  This is not match.com

I deliberately didn't post that I was leaning towards #2.  I think I will go that way & if I get a chance, I'll see #1 the next time or if my trip gets extended.  
HV

Thank you! A main reason why my personal target is to know/befriend/and share prior to the sex. Thank you for that reality Madame.