Please forgive me if this has been discussed, I did a search and didn't find anything related.

Anyway, my question is if women, whether providers or not, feel the amount a man ejaculates is indicative of anything?  It's sexy, indicates virility, etc, etc, etc.  or just don't care one way or another.

I guess like many men the amount I ejaculate has diminished significantly as I've aged.

Not being a provider, I have no idea what they will answer but unless the guy only ejaculates in a condom, how are they to know? Since I mostly indulge in oral activities They know. When I was recovering from a bad medical decision I had no ejaculation (nor orgasm) at all. When my testosterone level started to recover, so did my ejaculate. My ladies,commented enthusiastically as it's volume increased.

I actually had no idea volume goes down with age...  
Anyway, no girl I know of cares in the least.

also walnuts help to build up the consistency.

I know a few gals who love lots of cum either in their mouths or on their faces.

Some however, not so much, as Borat would say.

I was the ideal client (at least for her) as my volume was small.  True or not at least I felt good about myself.  As I've gotten older my volume has gone down; sometimes almost nothing other times maybe half as much as when I was younger.  Given those facts I tend to feel like I don't live up to my end of the bargain so to speak. The ladies I've seen have never made an issue of it, though, one way or the other.  So who knows.

Ladies, I'd sure like to hear what you are really thinking about this topic.  Thanks.

they used to call me Shotglass..now i am but a thimble..

I had prostate surgery about 2.5 years ago so I have no cum at all, not a drop.  But I still have orgasms, just no jizz.  No one has complained about it and I really don't think they care as long as I get off.  Interestingly, my orgasms have changed, much more powerful.  Also, at times I have an orgasms that lasts almost a minute, really quite spectacular, but I never had that when I was actually cumming.

My biggest problem is that I'm incredibly sensitive after an orgasm but without any jizz some ladies have not realized that I came, despite the screams and spasms (seriously), and keep working me over, but the sensitivity is just too much.  Because it comes right after cumming I actually have a hard time catching my breath to ask them to slow down.  Life is interesting.

Until I get to know anyone I'm always concerned with exchanging body fluids, it's the times we live in. So with that being said, I like older gentlemen because it's less mess!

as long as she gets it all!

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I agree
(1)Had the "roto-rooter" procedure for enlarged prostate
(2)No cum at all when I orgasm
(3)Orgasms are as intense and feel as good as they ever did
(4)Really sensitive after the orgasm
I make it a point to inform my partner what to expect so she can "slow down" after I ejaculate - and yes, my urologist said I still ejaculate, or retro-ejaculate, as the semen goes back into the bladder instead of coming out.  I question that, as I never see anything in my urine that resembles semen, but........whatever
Many of the ladies indicate they have other clients with the same issue, and many comment how nice it is not to have to "deal" with the semen.
Like poker, ya play the cards that are dealt to you

so that means no cum but good orgasm. it took awhile to get the erections back up to par.  I used to take a pill before seeing a provider but not now.  my ATF turns me on so much I don't need it. I do tell about the surgery and no cum.  it seems to help get more cim. she seems more relaxed too. I'm ok with it all now as the orgasm is still there, and that is all that matters.

LOL

hank you all for your replies.  I haven't had prostate surgery and am in good health.  I do take cialis which seems to help with erections but of course has nothing to do with volume of ejaculate.

I appreciate hearing from some providers

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God bless you and your profession, both of them LOL.

Unless one is into doing a porn star, I think nurses make the best providers, particularly at our age.

I have had experiences with two, and they were compassionate, caring folks who really wanted to rock my world.....and they did

I too have had a reduction of output as I have aged.  Then by accident I found a workable solution, for me, anyway.

I had a date with a provider at the end of a VERY busy week in which I could not pleasure myself.  I went 6 days with out spanking the monkey.  When I meet the provider we did the usual round of oral, screwing, oral again.  My cock was as sensitive as it was when I was 10 years younger.  When I blew my load in her mouth, the provider commented on the large amount of cum is just gifted her.

I have used this technique on four different providers and they had said the same thing, unprompted.

I am not sure if the appreciated the amount, but I sure felt proud........a bit selfish, but proud